Jim Rohn Personal Development - Don't Live a SMALL Life Let other people lead small lives but not you. Let everybody else cry over small hurts but not you. Let everybody else argue over non-essentials but not you. Deal in things that matter. Make sure what you do is the product of your own conclusion. Take advice but not orders. Let everybody around you be helpful but then put that through your own mental computer and make sure what you do is the product of what you've concluded based on all the input... 
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