Did you have an idea in your head about how motherhood was going to be?Were you resentful or upset when it did not turn out that way?Do you wonder where these ideas even come from?You must be saying yes to at least one of these questions, because expectations are everywhere.If you are a new listener, we would love to hear from you.  Please consider leaving us a review on itunes or sending us an email with your suggestions and comments to badassbreastfeedingpodcast@gmail.comThings we talked about:Abby’s amazing statement on expectations (that she did not make up) [2:54]Deep levels of resentment [6:32]Breastfeeding resentment [7:18]Jack’s brilliance [10:02]Expectations bypass science [12:07]Sleep expectations and where it came from [14:52]Cycle of resentment [20:44]Normal? Reality? [23:48]Does it get easier?  Or does it get different? [24:28]Daycare expectation/ separation from baby [26:53]Pumping expectations [27:40]How to look at expectations in your life [31:39]This week’s shout out!Blacktivist [18:27]This episode is sponsored by  Junobie and Love and FitOther things we talked about:https://badassbreastfeedingpodcast.com/episode/126-milk-supply-myths-that-hurt-breastfeeding/https://badassbreastfeedingpodcast.com/episode/101-being-the-perfect-parent/https://badassbreastfeedingpodcast.com/episode/053-losing-your-shit/Breastfeeding Class!!  6/25/20https://www.eventbrite.com/e/copy-of-what-wikipedia-doesnt-tell-you-about-breastfeeding-tickets-108868203728Set up your consultation with Diannehttps://badassbreastfeedingpodcast.com/consultations/Follow our Podcast~https://badassbreastfeedingpodcast.comHere is how you can connect with Dianne and Abby~Abby Theuring  https://www.thebadassbreastfeeder.comDianne Cassidy http://www.diannecassidyconsulting.comMusic we use~Music: "Levels of Greatness" from "We Used to Paint Stars in the Sky (2012)" courtesy of Scott Holmes at freemusicarchive.org/music/Scott Holmes