Finding the Right Therapist, A Mystery Guest and All Kinds of Advice

Anime Kink, 2020 Candidates, and Missing Your Best Friend with Amir Blumenfeld: This week Allison and Gaby share their thoughts on aliens, masturbation, friendship, and what they’re looking for in a 2020 president. If that’s not enough they also encourage a listener to navigate the complexities of kinks, porn, and feminism with their partner. Then, the dynamic duo interview the recently lasik-ed, Amir Blumenfeld (@amir) about maintaining a friendship with his bi-coastal bestie, Jake. And during Topixxx, we learn 20/20 is a type of perfection we cannot expect for our eyes... or this election. Beam us up, aliens! ASAP!Trigger warning: There is brief discussion of rape in this week’s Topix. by Just Between Us

53 min listen

Setting Boundaries, A Dog Named Alan, and Dating Online (w/ Emily Heller): It’s tiring being there for everyone... ALL OF THE TIME. So this week, Allison and Gaby share their advice on how to thwart off emotional Vampires. Then, they talk with awe-inspiring and prolific writer Emily Heller (@mremilyheller) about balancing her new dog and her new husband. Plus: are you more like Allison or Gaby when it comes to swiping left and right on dating apps? Find out for free by listening to this episode! (Please like, subscribe and comment using only emojis.) by Just Between Us

57 min listen

Look Who’s Bringing Up The Patriarchy! (w/ Dan De Lorenzo): Searching for a way to cope with failure? So are we! This week, Allison and Gaby talk through how to work past the low points in life, help a listener figure out how to share finances with her partner, and grill one of Allison’s ex-boyfriends (Dan De Lorenzo) on their past, failed relationship. by Just Between Us

48 min listen

Sharing Your Needs, Hitting Your Kids and Advice For Your Younger Self w/ Charla Lauriston: Allison and Gaby tell a listener to speak up in their relationship to avoid losing their partner. Comedian Charla Lauriston (@charlalauriston) then joins the girls to talk about some controversial stuff. Later, A & G give advice to their younger selves and it’s a doozie! by Just Between Us

80 min listen

Love Bombing, Pharmaceuticals, and Toxic Fandom w/ Georgia Hardstark: Allison and Gaby help a listener avoid the same dating mistakes (over and over). Then they’re joined by “My Favorite Murderer’s” Georgia Hardstark (@hardstark) to talk about mental health, pharmaceuticals, and why she participates in #myfavoritemeds. Later, they discuss the good, the bad and the ugly of fandoms. (It's you're a fan of this podcast, you're one of the good ones!) by Just Between Us

76 min listen

Intimacy, Baby! (w/ Kara Brown): Serious question: where do you put your anger? Allison and Gaby dissect how anger manifests for them and what they do about it. They also answer Tamara's International Question about corporations profiting off of mental illness and where they draw the line. Then, the marvelous Kara Brown (@KaraRBrown), writer and co-host of Keep It! shares how she made her career transition from critiquing TV shows to writing for them. Plus, find out if you’re a terrible parent in a rousing round of Hypotheticals! It’s NASTY! (Not really.) Trigger warning: Allison and Gaby talk about self-harm during this week’s Topix. by Just Between Us

56 min listen

If It’s Not Flawed, It’s Not Fun (w/ Jazzmyne Robbins): Do you ever find yourself wondering if you’re…settling? Wonder no more -- this week, Allison reveals her patented & proven scientific method for determining if you’re settling (or not). Plus, Allison and Gaby discuss the finer points of non-monogamy, play a riveting round of hypotheticals, and learn all about power clashing as a strong woman with body positivity model and style icon Jazzmyne Robbins (@jazzmynejay). by Just Between Us

52 min listen

LIVE FROM CHICAGO - Platonic Intimacy, Circus Tricks and Apologies with Symphony Sanders: This episode was recorded in Chicago while on tour and may or may not be the funniest episode yet! (We swear we're not biased!) Allison attempts to answer a a listener's question about platonic intimacy while also explaining the concept of platonic intimacy to Gaby. They’re then joined by actor, acrobatist, and star of "Welcome to Nightvale," Symphony Sanders who shares all the dirty details of the aerial arts. And later they discuss the complexities of apologizing. Quick Question: Have you tried soaking? by Just Between Us

72 min listen

The Fight (w/Kelsey Darragh): Are you supposed to tell your best friend EVERYTHING? This week, Allison and Gaby take a cold hard look at their friendship, boundaries, and expectations of one another. Friend of the show and ray of sunshine, Kelsey Darragh (@kelseydarragh), shares her insights on what it’s like to measure success on your own terms and plays along in some spellbinding rounds of Would You Stay With This Cheater? and Is This A Date? What an emotional rollercoaster!Also, none of this was planned… just ask Senior Producer, John. by Just Between Us

58 min listen

Relationship Expectations, Type I Diabetes, and Self-Identity with Dave Holmes: Allison and Gaby jump to a listener's defense after learning their partner doesn't want to have sex anymore.They’re then joined by writer Dave Holmes (@DaveHolmes) to discuss being misdiagnosed with diabetes for eight years and how his correct diagnosis led him to become a better gay person. And the ladies close out this well-rounded episode with an introspective look at the importance of self-identity. (Spoiler: It's sort of important!) by Just Between Us

67 min listen

Asking For Nudes, Queer Muslims, and Day To Day Mental Illness with Fawzia Mirza: This week Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question on what to do when your long distance partner won’t share photos of themselves. (Bummer!) They’re then joined by actress, writer, creator (and former lawyer) Fawzia Mirza to discuss being queer AND being Muslim. Later Allison and Gaby discuss how they live their lives with mental illness. Spoiler: It involves a lot of Clorox Wipes and positive thinking. by Just Between Us

76 min listen

Work/Life Balance, Cuban American Culture, And All Sorts of Sexism with Raiza Licea: This week Allison and Gaby get riled up answering a listener’s question on internalized capitalism. They’re then joined by comedian Raiza Licea to discuss what it was like growing up Cuban in Florida and then Los Angeles. And later we talk about sexism - how it personally affects us, how it manifests in society and how we can destroy it. by Just Between Us

77 min listen

Now You Understand The Game (w/ Jon Gabrus): Are you dom, sub, or vers? Do you have to choose? Do you even understand what any of that means? Listen in on this week’s informative International Question about kinks and how to make the first move in your sexual relationships. Plus, Allison does her very best to befriend king of podcasts, Jon Gabrus, and both girls open up about managing mental illness. It’s a wild ride, but someone has to do it! (We hope.)Trigger warning: there is some conversation about suicide. by Just Between Us

60 min listen

Dump That Guy, Write a Book (w/ Maggie West): Would you stay with this cheater? Should you break up with your pro-life boyfriend? How do you combine porn and art? All this and more on the debut episode of Just Between Us! Allison and Gaby are hopping off YouTube and into podcasting with their weekly comedic variety show featuring games, interviews, and brutally honest conversation. This week, they answer a listener’s international question, share their personal thoughts and experiences about body image, and play mind-boggling rounds of hypotheticals with photographer and installation artist, Maggie West.Trigger warning: Allison and Gaby share their thoughts and experiences with body image, dieting, and weight loss. by Just Between Us

50 min listen

OCD Specialist Sheva Rajaee, Self-Love and Conspiracy Theories: Allison and Gaby give a listener tips and tricks on building their self confidence. (Be nice to yourself, goddammit!) They’re then joined by Cognitive Behavioral Therapist Sheva Rajaee (@theshrinkwrap) to discuss all things OCD including Allison's intrusive thoughts. And later they share their favorite conspiracy theories while arguing about all sorts of stuff. You know, typical episode! by Just Between Us

75 min listen

Giving All The Information, Walking Out of E! And Losing A Best Friend with Catt Sadler: Allison and Gaby tell/yell at a listener to be honest with their partner about what they want in the future. They’re then joined by journalist Catt Sadler (iamcattsadler) to discuss equal pay and publicly leaving your job. Later they talk about the fall out from Allison’s falling out with one of her best friends. (She’s gonna be okay, don’t worry!) by Just Between Us

76 min listen

Finding the Right Therapist, A Mystery Guest and All Kinds of Advice: Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question on how to figure out if you’re compatible...with your therapist. They’re then joined by a special mystery guest and we won’t spoil it for you here, so you have to listen! They wrap up the episode with an examination of advice—when to give it, when to listen and when to shut up. by Just Between Us

68 min listen

Doing Weed (w/Brian Jordan Alvarez): In the HIGHEST rated episode to date, Allison and Gaby “puff, puff, pass” along their knowledge by demonstrating how to gently turn down a friend during this week’s International Question. Then, the duo get swept off their feet by the talented and effervescent Brian Jordan Alvarez (The Gay and Wondrous Life of Caleb Gallo; Will & Grace). And, if you haven’t guessed it already, this week’s Topix is all about weed. More than your average stoner talk, Gaby and Allison dissect what it means to normalize the stigma associated with marijuana and its role in the prison industrial complex. No one was high during the making of this episode. (We think.) by Just Between Us

49 min listen

Linguist Amanda Montell, Keeping the Spark Alive, and Abortion: Trigger Warnings - Rape and TransphobiaAllison and Gaby answer a listener’s question on how not to get bored in a long-term relationship. They’re then joined by linguist and author of “Word Slut,” Amanda Montell, to talk about discrimination...in language. And later they discuss abortion. (Spoiler: We're pro-choice.) by Just Between Us

75 min listen

Losing Your Virginity, Star Charts, and Gaby’s Mental Health w/ Sarah Paasch: Trigger Warning: Suicide and self-harm is discussed during this week’s topix. This week, Allison and Gaby help answer a listener’s question about when (and maybe how) to have sex for the first time. Then, this Gemini duo learn what’s in the stars for them with a birth chart reading from the cosmically delightful, Sarah Paasch (@sarah_paasch). Later, Allison shares her new mental health hashtag #JustCheckingIn leading to a bigger conversation about the state of Gaby's mental health. A friendly reminder from a friendly friend that it’s ok to not be ok. by Just Between Us

80 min listen

Esmé Weijun Wang and Living with Schizophrenia, Anti-Feminist Friends and Guilty Pleasures: Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener whose friend is proudly anti-feminist. They’re then joined by writer Esmé Weijun Wang, who shares revealing details about living with a schizophrenic and schizoaffective disorder. And later, all the guilty pleasures that you should TOTALLY NOT feel guilty for! Trigger warnings: schizophrenia, mental illness and mass shootings. by Just Between Us

58 min listen

Toxic Friends, Home Schooling, and Imposter Syndrome with Joel Kim Booster: Coming in hot this week with Allison recovering from getting walked in on the bathroom moments before recording. Allison and Gaby then answer a listener's question about how to dump friends when any other option is "not on the table at all." They’re later joined by actor, comedian, and writer Joel Kim Booster (@ihatejoelkim) who explains the pros and MANY cons of homeschooling. And later, Allison loses her cool, again, while discussing imposter syndrome in Topixxx. (Tough episode for Allison.) by Just Between Us

66 min listen

Getting Diagnosed with Annie Segarra, Romantic Jealousy and Going Back To School: Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener whose jealousy is out of control! They’re then joined by disability rights activist, Annie Segarra, to discuss her fight to get properly diagnosed with a rare genetic syndrome. And later, Allison opens up about her highly personal (and scary!) decision to go back to school. (OH GOD!) Trigger Warning: Medical Malpractice / Abuse by Just Between Us

70 min listen

Moving In, Allison’s Mom and Weddings w/ Ruth Raskin: Trigger Warning: SuicideAllison and Gaby help a listener figure out when it’s kosher to move in with a new partner. They’re then joined by Allison’s mom, Ruth Raskin (ruthraskinphoto), who discusses the challenges of raising a child with mental illness and the importance of facing it head on. Later they give all their thoughts and feelings about weddings. SPOILER: Do not have it outside. by Just Between Us

76 min listen

Pet Psychic Jessica Lanyadoo, Changing Your Sexuality, and Being Transparent Online: Allison and Gaby try to help a listener who is second guessing defining herself as a lesbian. They’re then joined by animal communicator, Jessica Lanyadoo, who talks with their dogs, Sugar and Beans. What they learn will shock the bone right out of your dog's mouth! Later they intensely debate whether or not fans deserve total transparency online. Woof!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. by Just Between Us

71 min listen

Coming Out with Kathy Tu, Cosmetic Surgery and Instagram’s Likes Policy: Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener considering cosmetic surgery. They’re then joined by “Nancy” podcast co-host Kathy Tu, who had to come out over and over… and over again to her conservative mother. She’s got some tips if you’re going home to an unaccepting family this holiday season! And later, Allison and Gaby look back at how social media has impacted their careers, as Instagram makes a major change. Trigger warning: homophobia. by Just Between Us

57 min listen

Deleting Your Ex, Lying To Your Kids, and How To Be An LGBTQ Ally w/ Jamie Denbo: Unfollow, delete, block. What’s your method when it comes to exes and social media? Allison and Gaby get brutally honest in this week’s International Question from South Africa! Then they get hypothetical with the brilliant and marvelous, Jamie Denbo (@jamiedenbo) who also happens to be a mom (the show’s first parent! Wahoo!) And finally, Pride is upon us, but being an ally to the LGBTQ community is a year-round thing, so learn more about how to be an ally in this week’s topixxx. Is that enough variety for you?!Holding ourselves accountable here. We want to note that, Gaby misgendered Eileen Myles, their pronouns are "they/them." by Just Between Us

59 min listen

Ratting Out Cheaters, Chimpanzees, And Reclaiming Slurs with Primatologist Kate Gilmore: Allison and Gaby give a listener advice on what to do if a married older man hits on you (and you don't want to use violence). They’re then joined by the Los Angeles Zoo’s Kate Gilmore and lose their primate minds! Later they discuss taking back slurs and using them to feel powerful. This episode is actually wild. Get it?! Primates! by Just Between Us

75 min listen

You Will Be Fine (w/ Miles McKenna): This week, all the way from Canada, comes a listener question wondering if it’s worth the risk to break up a perfectly healthy and loving monogamous relationship for some polyamorous fun. Then, Allison and Gaby are blown away by shining star, Miles McKenna (@themilesmckenna) who shares thoughtful advice for people considering coming out and discusses his transition in the public eye. A few key hints for this week’s hypotheticals involve: a potato chip, tickling, and Ambien. What could possibly go awry? To wrap it all up, internalized shame around sex and sexuality is real, Gaby and Allison untangle the double standards of societal patriarchy in this week’s Topixxx. P.S. BRENDON URIE, WILL YOU BE ON THE PODCAST?! by Just Between Us

52 min listen

Workplace Harassment, Sex Education, and Toxic Families with Melissa Strype: Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question on if she should quit her job because she’s in love with her boss. Then, educator, comedian, and sexual rights activist Melissa Strype (@thebiglissa) join them and discuss sex education. Later, they share their stories on Toxic Family Members. by Just Between Us

63 min listen

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