Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity.  We discuss what really kills attraction, who is at fault when someone gets insecure, and what it means to feel safe to bring up your fears and vulnerability in a relationship. Also, someone changed Jameson's Netflix username to "Lord Fart"... --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey