Sami is back for a solo Dear DST episode, starting with a holiday focused Non-Scale Win that we can all relate to now that we're in holiday season. She then shares some of her other Non-Scale Wins, talks about the process of freezing her embryos and more. Next, a listener writes in with a Dear DST email about backhanded compliments and how frustrating they can be. Sami shares her insights on how she usually confronts those types of situations.