All Work And No Play....Who Wants That?!?

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All Work And No Play....Who Wants That?!?

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Do you approach your life more with a sense of Play or Work?
One of these perspectives creates joy and sustainability, the other will wear you out. Which do you think is which?
In today's Having It A.L.L. Moment I talk to you about the Play Perspective and invite you to imagine how different areas of your life would look and feel if you approached them from the space of Play.

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