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Shipped Is Better Than Perfect

FromHaving It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life

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Nov 26, 2018

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What is the cost of your pursuit of perfection?

Today I'm bringing you a bonus episode (actually you'll get a few bonus episodes this week!). I'm talking about perfection and the belief that things need to be perfect in our lives before we take action.

Many times we seek perfection because we're scared of something, and by the end of today's episode my intention is that you have greater insight on this for yourself.

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Nov 26, 2018

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