Prudence is joined this week by Ben Gullard, a creative technologist living in Brooklyn, NY. 
Prudie and Gullard dig into letters about what to know about a niece who’s angry at you for getting the dog sitter fired after finding out she did her job naked, what to do about a roommate who routinely brings stolen groceries into the house, how to handle feeling like you’re abandoning your lesbian community now that you are in a straight relationship, should you reach out to an ex you treated badly, how to handle a friend who revealed their homophobia after you came out.
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Email: prudence@slate.com 
Production by Phil Surkis

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