This week’s theme is "first times"—first times doing butt stuff, first times seeing ourselves in literature, first times questioning religion, and first times accepting Beyoncé as our Lord and Saviour. We also get to talkin' about gay bars and steak houses (What's the difference??), the retribution of the Queen Bey's self-titled album, and (duh) how we lost our virginities. And it ain't pretty. Our dessert this week is the incomparable Lauren Duca, Teen Vogue writer and public enemy white male fascist trolls. Follow her: @laurenduca Email us: thots@food4thotpodcast.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/food4thotpod Follow us on Facebook: facebook.com/food4thotpod Joe: @reluctantlyjoe Tommy: @heyteebs Fran: @fransquishco Dennis: @theearldenden Sign up for our newsletter, which has a whole platter of other yummy, newsletter-exclusive tidbits: food4thotpodcast.com Release date: 19 February 2017

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