In this extra-nice episode, Tuck answers listener questions with their roommates Taegan Wolfe (they) and Tehya (they). Topics include: Navigating a gender transition in a previously “straight” relationship Androsexual, gynesexual, sapiosexual… are they problematic? What should I do if I’m triggered by my partner’s gender expression? How can I feel sexy in a non-normative body? Also: how and why did you choose to be gay? This Week in Gender: Marvel announces its first nonbinary superhero… Snowflake (via Pink News) We’ve got NEW merch, including “Surf Don’t TERF” sweatshirts & mugs and a shirt that says “at least it’s spring in hell,” only available until April 1. Browse all of our shirts, stickers, mugs and more at bit.ly/gendermerch.  -- Do you have gender questions that you’d like answered on the show? Submit questions anonymously via this Google form. Join the Gender Detectives Slack at bit.ly/genderslack2. Support Tuck's new full-time gender detective gig!  Pledge any amount at patreon.com/gender to receive our weekly newsletter. We also appreciate donations via PayPal or Cash App. Questions? Comments? Feelings? You can reach us at genderpodcast.com or on Twitter or Instagram. Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we’ll read on the show. Today’s Theymail message is from the Heart. Logo: Ira M. Leigh Music: Breakmaster Cylinder Sponsors: YOU! Thank you!