Episode 04 - Coming Out to Care

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Episode 04 - Coming Out to Care

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Sep 13, 2016

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In this episode, we explore what it feels like to talk about sex/sexuality with your Personal Care Attendant, and what that means for a disabled person.

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Sep 13, 2016

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This is a podcast that looks at disability stories. it's like sitting down with a really close friend to have real conversations about disability, sexuality and everything else about the disability experience that we don't talk about; the things about being disabled we keep in the dark. The show is hosted by Disability Awareness Consultant Andrew Gurza.

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Episode 04 - Coming Out to Care

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