004 SelfWork: Perfectly Hidden Depression Pt. 2

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004 SelfWork: Perfectly Hidden Depression Pt. 2

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Nov 21, 2016

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This podcast is the second in a series of two on what Dr. Margaret calls “Perfectly Hidden Depression.” PHD isn’t a diagnosis, but a syndrome, or group of characteristics that are found together, and serve to help you deny or ignore depression that’s kept far underneath the surface. Your life looks perfect. You’re active and […] The post 004 SelfWork: Perfectly Hidden Depression Pt. 2 appeared first on Dr. Margaret Rutherford.

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