How Safety Can Hurt Our Children

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How Safety Can Hurt Our Children

FromLegacy Dads with Dave and Dante

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May 11, 2020

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Lance and Dante talk about how parents who are overly cautious about safety and safe environments are actually hurting their children's development and wellbeing.

Released:

May 11, 2020

Format:

Podcast episode

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Real men with authentic faith. Legacy Dads is a community of Christian men focusing on issues such as marriage, parenting, and leadership. We equip men who are trying to balance faith, our modern lives, and leading our families to a lasting legacy.

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Legacy Dads Episode #1 - Beginnings: The Beginning - How we went from clueless men to 60,000+ followers and becoming better Christian men, husbands, and fathers. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #13 - 10 Secrets for New Dads: Lance and Dante share 10 secrets for new dads or dads to be. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #3 - Top 10 Things You Can't Control: Legacy Dads has 60,000+ followers and our speaking and sponsoring some of the top Christian Men's Conferences and Ministries. In this episode, Lance and Dante talk about the top 10 things we cannot control in our lives. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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The Ways We Are Manipulated: Lance and Dante discuss the techniques used to manipulate people on an individual and group basis. These techniques are used by politicians, the media, marketing, and people who want to influence, persuade, or manipulate us. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #2 - The Four Chairs: Becoming a Heavy Hitter by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #11 - Do You Even TULIP Bro?: Solid Theology by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #40 - Parenting, Frustration, and Anger: Dante and Lance talk about what causes frustration and anger while parenting and how to mitigate it. Lance and Dante also explain how to create a home environment that reflects Christ like character and minimizes the areas that cause frustration. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
55 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #4 - How My Wife Shocks Other Moms: How my wife shocks other moms with her parenting and counseling advice on what really works, long term for the best results. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #15 - The Law of the Lid: Lance and Dante talk about elite performance, combat, and how it relates to your faith. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
34 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #27 - Who's Your Daddy? Gender Roles: Dante and Lance discuss a NY Times article where the author tries to imply that being a good dad means you're taking on the role of a mother. Gender Roles and Biblical Roles. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #24 - 2 Parenting Mistakes: Two mistakes I made (I made a lot more) but two that really stand out to me. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode # 6 - Part 2 of #ThoughtsandPrayers - When I Was An Atheist: #ThoughtsandPrayers - When I Was An Atheist - Part 2 by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode # 10 - The Next Chapter of Life: Lance talks about becoming an Empty Nester and the next chapter of life. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #38 - Early Church History and the Reformation: Lance and Dante walk you through the history of the early Christian Church from Christ to the 1600’s. Major events include early teachings and writings, adoption of the faith by Rome, the fall of Rome, the Middle Ages and abuses of power, the split... by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
53 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #36 - This Is The End, Beautiful Friend: Lance and Dante try to distinguish fact from fiction in what the Bible actual says about end times, persecution of the Church, and tribulation. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
47 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #7 - Top 10 Ways to Build Up Your Wife: Build Up Your Wife and Electrify Your Marriage by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Logs, Specks, and Being "Judgy": Dante and Lance discuss Matthew 7 and judgmental attitudes. Dante and Lance also discuss racism and how dehumanizing thoughts and language can lead people to do unimaginable things. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #12 - Foundation and Stages of Effective Parenting: Lance and Dante talk about setting a solid foundation and the stages of effective parenting. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
52 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #9 - God Wants You To Eat Meat: Discipleship, Walking With Men, and Moving From Milk to Meat by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode # 5 - #ThoughtsandPrayers - When I Was An Atheist - Part 1: #ThoughtsandPrayers - When I Was An Atheist - Part 1 by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #37 - All Religions Are Basically The Same?: Dante and Lance discuss the similarities and fundamental differences of the three major religions. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
47 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode # 8 - Creating Faith That "Sticks" With Our Kids: How to create faith that endures with our children through college and into adulthood. The latest research from the Fuller Youth Institute on youth ministry and "sticky faith". by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
38 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #14 - Are You A Lone Ranger?: Are you walking in faith as a lone ranger? Why do we need other men, accountability, and mentorship. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
33 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #32 - Common Themes of Dysfunctional Families and Behavior Issues: Lance and his wife talk about common themes of dysfunctional families and parents struggling with children who exhibit behavioral issues. Lance's wife is a licensed behavioral health clinician working with children, teens, and families. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
50 min listen
Legacy Dads Podcast #16 - 10 Traits of an Authentic Disciple: Ten traits of an authentic disciple. Lance and Dante talk about spiritual fruit and spiritual disciplines. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
44 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #18 - Unusual Soldiers and The Great Commission: Lance's son talks about missionary training with Unusual Soldiers and Caleb Bislow, author of Dangerous, and why fulfilling the Great Commission is not always easy. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Episode #31 - Was Jesus A Socialist?: Socialism is a popular concept on college campuses these days and some politicians have any claimed that Jesus was a socialist. Lance and Dante dissect this idea against scripture, history, and economics. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
42 min listen
Legacy Dads Episode #23 - Overprotective Parents, Underdeveloped Children: Why being an overprotective parent has negative consequences on our children and their development. by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Legacy Dads Podcast #17 - 4 Barriers to a Healthy Marriage: 4 Barriers to a Healthy Marriage by Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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How Safety Can Hurt Our Children

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