The Dangers of High Control Parenting

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The Dangers of High Control Parenting

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Jun 22, 2020

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Dante and Lance discuss the dangers of high control parenting and the evidence that shows the psychological and emotional damage done by this type of parenting. Learn the warning signs and how to use moderation to teach our children obedience and compliance.

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Jun 22, 2020

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Real men with authentic faith. Legacy Dads is a community of Christian men focusing on issues such as marriage, parenting, and leadership. We equip men who are trying to balance faith, our modern lives, and leading our families to a lasting legacy.

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