Binaries aren't good for babies or friendships. We discuss angst around the "gender reveal" party from the blogger who popularized it. How to avoid judgement around a friend's parenting and their choice about whether to become a parent. Crucially, how to weather change when a friend has kids and you don't. Hint: communicate! Also, untested but good-smelling mosquito repellents. And, we have brand new merch + don't forget to buy tickets to CYG Live! LinksTour / MerchInventor of gender reveal parties weighs in!How to hang out with your friend who has a kidChildfree By Choice by Dr Amy BlackstoneNo One Tells You This by Glynnis MacNicol