Episode 115: Invitation to a Blame Party

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Episode 115: Invitation to a Blame Party

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Apr 26, 2013

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TOPIC: Fixing the Culture of Meetings

This week, Dan and Merlin address the problems with meetings, and how we can each choose to improve them.

Ten quick ideas?

Purpose
Agenda
Grazing Policy
Hard Edges
Scheduling Guests
Timekeeper
No Ratholes
Focus
Follow-Up
Consistency

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Apr 26, 2013

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Back to Work is an award winning talk show with Merlin Mann and Dan Benjamin discussing productivity, communication, work, barriers, constraints, tools, and more. Hosted by Merlin Mann & Dan Benjamin.

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