Episode 172: Somewhere Between a Habit and a River

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Episode 172: Somewhere Between a Habit and a River

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63 minutes

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May 22, 2014

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TOPIC: How to undig a river.

This week, Dan and Merlin talk about an email message from a listener who's having trouble getting away from his inbox long enough to do what he needs to, introducing a mindfulness exercise that may help point to a deeper problem.

(This is a good one)

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May 22, 2014

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Back to Work is an award winning talk show with Merlin Mann and Dan Benjamin discussing productivity, communication, work, barriers, constraints, tools, and more. Hosted by Merlin Mann & Dan Benjamin.

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