This is understandably a pretty common question. If you're with a girl who has some qualities that you really like, and a few that you don't, then it's natural to want to just change those few bad qualities about her.
If you think this way about the person you're with, then you need to listen to this episode. Tucker, Carin and Geoff get straight to the point and tell you exactly how to deal with this situation, and what your next steps should be. Once you understand the issue properly, it's actually a simple solution.