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Dicks Everywhere

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Nov 8, 2016

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WE NEED TO PROCESS THIS ELECTION. Jaclyn is joined by writer and activist Soraya Chemaly to talk about our collective trauma, how to take on the institutions that made Trump possible, talking rape at the dinner table, the five stages of post-election grief, and how we think about healing from here. Whatever happens at the polls today, we'll get through it together, Unscrewed Nation. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy

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Nov 8, 2016

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Unscrewing up the sexual culture. Host Jaclyn Friedman and a rotating cast of whipsmart guests untangle the politics and culture of sex, and help out real-world sex advice-seekers.

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Naked Politics: From cartoons depicting Sanders spanking Clinton to slut-shaming Melania Trump, this election cycle is Exhibit A in the ways women in the political eye are sexualized in the service of electoral leverage. Jaclyn is joined by writer and media critic... by Unscrewed
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The Indiana Jones of Sex Education: The Yes Means Yes Show Episode 64: United Nations trainer and MTV host Francisco Ramirez travels the globe making the world safer for sexual pleasure, then (once he explains the numerous dildos in his bag to customs) dispenses free sex advice in NYC’s parks and streets. Jaclyn ta... by Unscrewed
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Should Buying Sex Be A Crime?: The Yes Means Yes Show Episode 65: Right now, Amnesty International is voting on whether it supports the decriminalization of sex work. That proposed shift in policy has a lot of people cheering, and others confused and upset. Jaclyn talks with Pye Jakobsson, founder of the Rose Allianc... by Unscrewed
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Abortion Road Trip: The Yes Means Yes Show Episode 73: Many people form their opinions about abortion based, at least in part, on what they see in TV and at the movies. So what are we learning? Researcher Gretchen Sisson watched every on-screen abortion plotline she could get her hands on, and she’s ... by Unscrewed
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Let’s Talk About (Gay) Sex: Yes Means Yes Episode 67: Now that marriage rights are settled, what should the LGBT movement(s) be focusing on? Jaclyn put that question to Janson Wu, Executive Director of GLAD, the legal nonprofit that brought the Obergefell case all the way to the Supremes. Find out what Wu... by Unscrewed
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This Podcast Is Asking For It: The Yes Means Yes Show Episode 68: The brilliant Kate Harding turns her incisive snark on rape culture in her new book Asking For It: The Alarming Rise of Rape Culture — and What We Can Do About It, and she joins Jaclyn for a surprisingly hilarious chat about it, including false r... by Unscrewed
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Jessica Jones vs. the MRAs: The Yes Means Yes Show Episode 72: Jaclyn was a guest on the Jonesing for Jessica podcast last week, talking all things Jessica Jones, including lots of talk of Luke & Jessica, which movie Kilgrave thinks he’s in, and what makes him basically an MRA with actual power. Check ou... by Unscrewed
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IT’S A SEX PANIC!: The Yes Means Yes Show Episode 71: Did you hear? Young people are doing sex things with their newfangled technology. EVERYBODY FREAK OUT!!!! Jaclyn is joined by Tina Horn, writer, educator and host of Why Are People Into That?! to talk about the latest youth sexting “scandal” to hit the... by Unscrewed
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The Cunning Linguist: Ever notice that our foul language is pretty fucked up when it comes to sex and gender? Jaclyn talks with slang lexicographer Jonathon Green about man-made language, how to make lady slang take hold, and why the penis is always dressed in camo. Then... by Unscrewed
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Spare Parts: How Does Lady Gaga feel?: In this quickiesode, Jaclyn catches up with one of the survivors who shared a stage with Gaga at the Academy Awards, encourages you to start saying "cervix-thumper," "suck my stiletto," and other slang suggested by listeners, and sh... by Unscrewed
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Spare Parts: A Kink in the Law: Did a U.S. court just outlaw BDSM? Jaclyn gets to the bottom of the panic with lawyer and kinkster Thomas MacAulay Millar in this quickiesode. Plus: a new entry in our ongoing dirty slang project, and help for a nervous anal newbie. by Unscrewed
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Spare Parts: You're The Tits!: Can a man call someone The Tits as a compliment? What's the matter with It Just Happened Sex? Can we all get a little more nuanced about porn? All these answers and more are revealed in this week's Spare Parts quickiesode. by Unscrewed
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The Sex Myth: The Yes Means Yes Show Episode 69: Jaclyn talks with Rachel Hills about The Sex Myth detailed in her new book – the pervasive belief that everyone is doing it more and better than you. We get into the pitfalls of rebellion, the impermanence of sexual identity, and what it would lo... by Unscrewed
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How Would Jesus Fuck?: The Yes Means Yes Show Episode 51: What would Jesus say about your sex life? The answer might surprise you. On this episode of FWF, Jaclyn catches up with the Reverend Beverly Dale, founder of the Incarnation Institute for Sex & Faith, who will totally rearrange your understanding o... by Unscrewed
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Spare Parts: Track the Tingle: Vibrator reviews, advice on how to reclaim masturbation as "real" sex, and a media criticism mea culpa, all in this Spare Parts quickiesode. Plus: find out what reduced Dr. Joycelyn Elders to tears on her first day of college... by Unscrewed
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Spare Parts: Frogs On Every Level: Can the Sorting Hat improve your romantic relationships? What's the best dating app for a feminist who wants to hook up, maybe fall in love, and protect her privacy at the same time? Those answers and more in this week's Spare Parts quickiesode. by Unscrewed
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Spare Parts: Sex Buckets: Asexuality, open relationships and mismatched libidos collide in this week's listener advice question. Plus a defense of Sex and the City that didn't make last week's Sex and the Single Ladies episode, and some Purple prose: all in the q... by Unscrewed
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Fun For Whom?: It's a Special Crossover Event! Jaclyn talks with League of Awkward Unicorns host Deanna Zandt about Anita Hill, the power of truth-telling, sexual harassment then and now, and Shine Squad, the project she co-founded to address the unchecked sexua... by Unscrewed
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Spare Parts: Rich People Eat Cheetos: What do people mean when they say "bisexual"? What are the class implications of shaming trainwrecks? What does Trump not realize he told you about himself? It's all in this Spare Parts quickiesode, along with some advice for a listener ... by Unscrewed
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Sex Object: What does it mean to live every day as a woman in a world that hates and objectifies women? That's the question at the heart of Jessica Valenti's brave, raw new memoir, Sex Object, and it's the subject of this intimate conversation betwe... by Unscrewed
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