T&A talk with Mark W. Gray, the man behind 'Professor Puppet' on sex as a mature man, the choice of wether or not to have kids, and how to make the holidays special wether you're single, alone, married, or divorced.  PLUS, Professor Hans Von Puppet tells us how to spice up the romance for the holidays.

Show Notes

Why should men masturbate before a date?  (08:31)

If you see something, say something!  Speaking up about what’s bothering you in your partner is essential to your relationship. (21:43)

A lot of things can change our perspective on life, but the nice thing about having a child is that it’s another person that you are connected to for life. (27:00)

He’s found that having two children is almost easier because it takes the pressure of the single child. (29:03)

Can we make ourselves change our outlook on having children? (33:00)

We are pulled in two different directions because we’re taught to have a career at the same time as we’re being societally pressured to have children. (34:40)

Are we selling ourselves short by not aggressively pursuing parenthood? (35:35)

Can caring for a child become a crutch, giving us an excuse to stop caring for our own selves? (37:11)

There’s an illusion that we’re in complete control of where our life is going and sometimes the derailment can be as important as the path. (37:35)

FULL Show Notes & Links HERE: http://www.tatalksex.com/an-older-man-convinces-ta-to-have-kids-w-professor-hans-von-puppet-ep-72/