How long do you have to hang around flirting with a guy after you realise he's straight? Plus Dan's giving up his favourite word for October.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.