James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it's Halloween and we love a tenuous link. How long can you be 'mugged off' before you've been ghosted and is ghosting the right thing to do if someone you don't fancy keeps getting in touch? Top tip : don't have a nap if someone is waiting on a reply.Plus love and solidarity with all our LGBTQ+ Brazilian family.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)