Episode 135: How Losing Control Can be Good

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Episode 135: How Losing Control Can be Good

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31 minutes

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Oct 4, 2016

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Losing control is draining and awkward but it can be used as a tool. Al and Johnny talk about times when going off on somebody was appropriate and beneficial.

Released:

Oct 4, 2016

Format:

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Introvert Extrovert is an examination of the psychology of personality in with the mission of helping people better understand themselves and each other, with the ultimate goal of self actualization and personal growth. Family, relationships, friendships and the absurdity of the human condition are forefront while different personality tests such as Myers Briggs are referenced from many philosophy points of view.

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Episode 135: How Losing Control Can be Good

Episode 135: How Losing Control Can be Good

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