On today’s episode of The His & Her Money Show, Rob and Reshawn Lee tell us about their amazing journey of destroying debt and building wealth. Rob is a former marine, husband and father. Reshawn is wife and mother. They are empty nesters in their forties and have two sons.  At the beginning of their marriage, they were not comfortable placing all their money in one bank account. They prayed about it and realized they should join their finances. Together they collaborated to pay off the car notes, Rob’s student loan and their home loan of about $200,000! They didn't stop there however, they kept grinding and made it their business to build wealth and give themselves another level of freedom. Their share the steps that they took and how you can do the same. WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE Solutions for blended families finances Why having an allowance as an adult will help you with your debt freedom journey Having tough financial conversations will help your marriage Why pre-marital counseling at church will help you with marital roles and responsibilities The do’s and don’ts of real estate investing What is a cash-out refinance, a ten thirty-one exchange, and a small multi-family rental RESOURCES The Courage to be Rich by Suze Orman  The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey