If you’ve ever struggled in a relationship, thought it was too hard, too ugly, too much baggage, or that it may be time to call it quits, or if you’ve been looking for your soulmate, but wondered if he is she is even out there…and how in the world you can finally have a GOOD relationship, then do we have the show for you!
Today we’ll be talking with Arielle Ford, relationship expert, speaker, blogger and producer of the Evolving Wisdom’s Art of Love series. She’s the author of ten books including the international bestseller The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction, and has been called The Cupid of Consciousness and The Fairy Godmother of Love.
Today we’ll talk about her latest book, turn your mate into your soulmate, and what it means to have a soulmate relationship. Out of all the books I’ve read, and if you regularly listen to the show, you know I’ve read a lot, I’ve never found a book that drew on such a wealth of different authors and experts as Arielle’s book, from John Gray, to Neale Donald Walsch, Deepak Chopra, Marianne Williamson, and the list goes on and on.
So today we’ll look at the true meaning of love, how to find it, how to keep it, why fighting over money isn’t the answer…nor is being right, and what the real work is in a relationship. In short, we’ll discuss what’s beyond the happily ever after, and key steps to help get you there!
That plus we’ll look at poppy seeds, The 4 Horseman of the Apocalypse, Wabi Sabi Love & Sex, and why Sy Mann Says Shut Up.
Questions and Topics Include:

How she knew at 43 it was time to manifest a partner using The Law of Attraction and The Secret
How Arielle manifested just the right partner
What the process of finding the right partner looks like
How to figure out what your soul is calling for
If two people are committed to helping the other person then it’s a win-win-win (you win, I win, the universe wins)
What soulmate math means.
What the true meaning of love is
How we can turn a relationship into a soulmate relationship
Why falling in love is being legally out of your mind.
Why marriage is typically not about finding another partner

Unless: Abuse, addiction or bad behavior


How to move past arguments about money

Why one person’s typically a spender and the other a saver


How to manifest money and use the Law of Attraction and The Secret to overcome childhood wounds about money
What the importance of vulnerability is
How to share feelings and approach things from a “I” place.
How to move past the “need to be right” phenomenon
Why “we have to talk” is the second scariest phrase on the planet.
What’s a better thing to say if there’s a big problem to talk about.
Why men love to be asked to help out
The importance of going for walks with your partner
How Arielle learned to become a great partner
How Arielle decided to become a student of love
How Arielle created the Art of Love Series.
How to make your relationship your priority

Why Date Night is So Important
Why Scheduling Sex is So Important
Why a once-a-month meeting to go over finances is So Important


How to begin connecting with your partner
The importance of giving your partner appreciations
The secret to get oxytocin going to help you both reconnect
What do poppy seeds have to do with tears?
What is Wabi-Sabi love?
What are Gottman’s Four Horseman of the Apocalypse
How we ended up marrying our mothers or our fathers

What Harville Hendrix (The Marriage Whisperer according to Oprah)says about marrying our parents.


How to be open to what the universe provides
What are the different types of manifestation and manifestors
What the Course of Miracles means by ‘in this moment I have all that I need”
When to move past negativity and when to dive into negativity
Why you don’t want to put ice-cream on top of poop
What’s a great exercise for diving into negativity
The importance of ho’oponopono
How to fill yourself back up with love
Why you should wear rose colored glasses
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