Addicted to Self Help? When Big Ideas Make Us Small

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Addicted to Self Help? When Big Ideas Make Us Small

FromThe New Man

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Mar 1, 2018

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Learning big ideas feels good. But what feels better than discovering the latest big idea? When does learning and preparing and researching get in the way of what’s most important?

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Mar 1, 2018

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Titles in the series (100)

Advice for Men to Align Career, Sex, Relationships, and Money

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166 Why Some Succeed and Others Won’t – Rich Litvin: The Prosperous Coach author Rich Litvin discusses why some succeed and others won’t, how you may be getting in your own way, and learning how to take a punch. by The New Man
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158 The Rise of Superman – Steven Kotler: The Rise of Superman - Steven Kotler by The New Man
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How to Get Out of a Rut: How to Get Out of a Rut by The New Man
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155 The Obstacle is the Way – Ryan Holiday: The Obstacle is the Way - Ryan Holiday by The New Man
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154 How to Own Your Power – John Wesley: How to Own Your Power - John Wesley by The New Man
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Tame Self Criticism: Not enough money? Relationship in trouble? Life not what you thought it would be? Here's how to tame self criticism. by The New Man
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Update: What’s Happening with The New Man?: Tripp discusses what's happening with The New Man. Where are the new episodes? What new course is he developing? And what is this new coaching group all about? by The New Man
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157 How to Avoid the Success Trap – Brian Johnson: How to Avoid the Success Trap - Brian Johnson by The New Man
45 min listen
How to Avoid the Traps Most Guys Fall Into: How to Avoid the Traps Most Guys Fall Into by The New Man
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174 Funny, Disgusting Stories and Spiritual Retreat Disasters: Tripp and Ray share embarrassing, disgusting stories from their spiritual retreat disasters. Consider yourself warned. Discussed: Meditation, Goenka, David Deida, Ayahuasca, men’s work, and more. by The New Man
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159 How to Overcome Tragedy – Ted Ryce: How to Overcome Tragedy - Ted Ryce by The New Man
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156 How to Make a Big Life Change – Robert Greene: How to Make a Big Life Change - Robert Greene by The New Man
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Why Most Guys Hit the Wall: Why Most Guys Hit the Wall by The New Man
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A Simple Relationship Tool for Men: A Simple Relationship Tool for Men by The New Man
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How to Deal with Entrepreneur Burnout: Frank founded a company and found entrepreneur burnout as well. How did he deal with the fear, resistance, and lack of productivity? by The New Man
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Do You Have to Make Money Doing What You Love?: Do You Have to Make Money Doing What You Love? by The New Man
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Update: Business that Matters, Mentoring, & Ask Tripp: Use the player above to listen. In this update... - -- Creating a business that's aligned with what matters. - -- Building a coaching practice. - -- Want more meaning in your life? Become a mentor. Click here to learn more. - by The New Man
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185 The KKK, Race, and Awkward Conversations – W. Kamau Bell: Kamau Bell United Shades of America by The New Man
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161 Switching Careers and Doing What You Love for a Living – Tripp Lanier and Steve Chandler: Thinking about switching careers? Hungry to do work that matters? Master coach Steve Chandler interviews Tripp Lanier about doing what you love for a living. by The New Man
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164 An Escort Talks About Sex and How to Be Powerful – Cindy: What can you learn about true power from a former high end escort? In this gripping true story, you’re going to hear how one woman refused to be a victim and found true power in a terrifying situation. by The New Man
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163 How to Turn Your Life Around — Liam Casey: How to turn your life around. True story of how Liam Casey got unstuck and learned how to deal with fear and his inner critic. Plus how this impacts his relationships and professional life. by The New Man
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How I Almost Got My Butt Kicked: How I nearly made enemies out of people who were trying to help me. This is how I almost got my butt kicked in the process. by The New Man
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171 How to Have Difficult Conversations – A Gay Man Comes Out to His Sons: How to have difficult conversations. A gay man comes out to his sons. How he navigated addiction, building a family, divorce, plus switching careers. by The New Man
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160 Get Over Criticism and Live a Big Dream – Amelia Rose Earhart: Get Over Criticism and Live a Big Dream - Amelia Rose Earhart by The New Man
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169 Dating: Starting Over After a Long Term Relationship – Shana James: Dating and starting over after a long term relationship. Starting conversations with women, sex and exclusive relationships, dealing with rejection. by The New Man
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172 What Makes Change Stick: Mind Your Body – Joel Harper: Mind Your Body author Joel Harper (Dr Oz’s trainer) discusses why some get fit, make more money, and have better relationships — and why most won’t. by The New Man
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Fear of Failure: Why You Already Know How to Beat It: Fear of failure? What this is really about and why you already know how to beat it. by The New Man
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165 Build Sexual Confidence – Christiane Pelmas: How to build sexual confidence, how sex relates to success, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, masturbation, and more are discussed. by The New Man
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179 The Truth About Relationships – Neil Strauss: Neil Strauss discusses the cost of dishonesty and what he’s learned from his journey through infidelity, sex addiction rehab, open relationships, polyamory, swinging, sex clubs, and now marriage and fatherhood. by The New Man
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177 Chasing Success: Hard Lessons Learned from Making Millions – S Brian Smith: Before Brian Smith made his millions, he was struggling to be the guy who stood above the rest. The truth? He was barely scraping by, $250K in personal debt, overweight, under slept, and very stressed out. What has he learned from chasing success and t... by The New Man
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Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner? Alyson and I try to help someone who is at odds with his partner about porn. Instead of debating who is right or wrong, what if we understood what’s driving us to seek porn in the first place? by The New Man
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Addicted to Self Help? When Big Ideas Make Us Small

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