Breaking Through The Matrix: Personal Development/ Self Help Book

By Engelbert Yene Yene

In the realm of personal development, there is a wealth of knowledge and ideas that can help individuals unlock their full potential. Among these resources is the book “Breaking Through the Matrix,” which delves into the collective wisdom of personal development trainers and combines it with the author’s own research and experiences.

Personal development is a lifelong journey that involves continuous growth, self-reflection, and improvement. It is about breaking free from the limitations and constraints that society, circumstances, and our own minds impose on us. We have the power to change our lives and reach our dreams if we seek out methods for personal development.

“Breaking Through the Matrix” takes its name from the idea of breaking free from the invisible barriers that surround us. These barriers, often referred to as the “matrix,” are the limiting beliefs, societal norms, and self-imposed restrictions that hold us back from reaching our true potential.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Engelbert Yene Yene
• Release date: Feb 22, 2024
• ISBN: 9798990195004

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Breaking Through the Matrix: A Personal Development Journey

In the realm of personal development, there is a wealth of knowledge and ideas that can help individuals unlock their full potential. Among these resources is the book Breaking Through the Matrix, which delves into the collective wisdom of personal development trainers and combines it with the author’s own research and experiences.

Personal development is a lifelong journey that involves continuous growth, self-reflection, and improvement. It is about breaking free from the limitations and constraints that society, circumstances, and our own minds impose on us. We have the power to change our lives and reach our dreams if we seek out methods for personal development.

Breaking Through the Matrix takes its name from the idea of breaking free from the invisible barriers that surround us. These barriers, often referred to as the matrix, are the limiting beliefs, societal norms, and self-imposed restrictions that hold us back from reaching our true potential.

A Variety of Strategies

Breaking Through the Matrix excels in part because it provides a number of various strategies to personal development. The book gives readers a variety of ways to improve themselves by referencing a broad variety of sources, such as personal development trainers and the author’s own research. Some examples of such strategies include methods for becoming more self-aware, learning to communicate effectively, managing time and priorities, cultivating positive habits, facing and conquering fears, and so on. Readers can personalize their personal development journey by looking at various strategies and picking the ones that speak to them.

What sets Breaking Through the Matrix apart is the author’s emphasis on personal experience. The author makes the book more relatable and inspiring by detailing their own experiences and lessons learned. Readers can draw wisdom from the author’s experiences, both good and bad, and incorporate them into their own lives.

Finally, for those who are serious about improving themselves, Breaking Through the Matrix is an invaluable tool. This book provides readers with a thorough guide to realizing their full potential by integrating the knowledge of personal development trainers, the author’s personal experiences and research, and a variety of strategies. To live a life you love and achieve your goals, you must set out on this path of self-improvement and break free from the matrix.

HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS BOOK?

While you are reading this book, take notes whenever you recognize areas of your life that need improvement.

Be honest with yourself.

Be open-minded to the ideas in this book and watch how quickly your life will change for the better.

Be consistent; read and reread it again and again.

Take, use, and practice what works best for you.

The outcome of this book will largely depend on the individual’s ability to put some of the techniques into practice.

Note that each person’s experience is different from that of others.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Author Name: Engelbert Yene Yene

Nickname: Legend Durand

Author of: The Secrets of the Midnight Streets, The World Is Yours, Kids, and Breaking Through from the Matrix

Professional Title: Life Coach/Personal Development Professional

Coaching Business Name: Legend Durand Coaching

Website:www.legenddurandcoaching.com

Mission: Empowering individuals and organizations to achieve greatness through expert coaching and transformative guidance.

Specializations: Life Purpose, Relationship, Family, Parenting, Teen Parenting, Energy and Leadership, Leadership and Management, Corporate, Health and Wellness, Sporting and Competitions, Mentoring

Roles: Motivational Speaker, Certified Trainer for Personal Development

The Art of Personal Development

It’s not what happens in the world that determines the major part of your future. What happens, happens to us all. The key is your action.

"Whether you’re on your way to achieving your goals or you’ve already gotten there, you’ll be as happy as you make up your mind to be – right now."

Accepting responsibility is one of the highest forms of human maturity. A willingness to be accountable, to put oneself on the line, is really the defining characteristic of adulthood. – Jim Rohn, personal development seminar, 1983

Once we understand and accept the truth, the promise of the future is freed from the shackles of deception. – Jim Rohn, personal development seminar, 1983

Table of Contents

Breaking Through the Matrix: A Personal Development Journey

HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS BOOK?

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

THE REASON BEHIND WRITING THIS BOOK

INTRODUCTION

Breaking Through the Matrix

CHAPTER 1: THE MATRIX

The New World Order: A Paradigm Shift or a Conspiracy Theory?

The Urgent Need to Reprogram Ourselves

How We Are Being Controlled and Who Runs the Show

The Hypocrisy of Politicians

CHAPTER 2: PRAYER

How Demons Gain Access to Your Homes

A Prayer to Get Rid of Curses in the Name of Jesus/God

CHAPTER 3: FINANCIAL FREEDOM

The World of Finance

The Great Divide: Planning Ahead

Countless Ways to Become Wealthy

The Importance of Knowledge in Life and Money Management

CHAPTER 4: ENERGY

Energy Attracts Energy

CHAPTER 5: CONSCIOUS AND SUBCONSCIOUS MIND

The Conscious Mind

The Subconscious Mind

Why Your Prayers and Wishes May Not Be Answered: The Power of Aligning Your Subconscious Mind with God

CHAPTER 6: AWARENESS

The Power of Awareness

CHAPTER 7: ATTITUDE

The Attitude Toward Life: Embracing the Beauty of Every Moment

Developing the Art of Sharing, Giving Back, and Helping

CHAPTER 8: DISCIPLINE

What is Discipline?

The Art of Procrastination

Self-accountability

Mastering Self-Control: The Key to Personal Growth

The Major Key of Success

CHAPTER 8: SELF-CARE

Self-Care: Meaning and Importance

5-4-3-2-1 Technique

CHAPTER 10: SELF-DISCOVERY

The WHO...

The WHY… LIFE PURPOSE

Mastering Your Emotions: The Key to a Fulfilling Life

The Power Within You: Unleashing Your Inner Potential

Additional Questions to Help You Discover the Real You

CHAPTER 11: THINKING

The Importance of Thinking: The Power of the Mind

The Importance of Focus: Unlocking Your Full Potential

Distractions: The Silent Saboteurs of Productivity

Mind Stimulators: Unlocking the Potential of Your Brain

The Importance of Self-Isolation: Taking Care of Yourself and Others

The Importance of a Quiet Place

The Importance of Classical Music

The Importance of Communication

CHAPTER 12: IMAGINATION

The Power of Imagination

Visualization: The Power of Seeing

Visualize Your Future: The Power of Imagination

The Power of Positive Thinking

CHAPTER 13: THE MINDSET

The Behavior: Understanding the Complexities of Human Actions

The Impact of Personality

Characters

The Power of Character Development

The Role of Characters in Plot Progression

Diversity and Representation

The Emotional Connection

Your Entourage

Setting Higher Standards for Yourself

The Power of Self-Education: Unlocking Your Potential

Lifelong Learning

Personal Empowerment

Flexibility and Adaptability

Specialization and Expertise

Personal Fulfillment

CHAPTER 14: FEAR

The Power of Imaginary Fear: Can It Make You Sick?

Understanding Imaginary Fear

The Mind-Body Connection

Effects on the Immune System

Impact on Mental Health

Breaking Free from Imaginary Fear

Overcoming Fear

Understanding Fear

Impact of Fear

Confronting Fear

Suggested Techniques

The Six Steps to Cultivating Courage

CHAPTER 15: THE BREAKING POINT

The Law of Manifestation: The Power Within

See No Problems, Only Opportunities

How to Become More Creative

Embrace Curiosity

Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

Cultivate a Creative Environment

Practice Mindfulness and Reflection

Embrace Failure and Learn from Mistakes

Engage in Diverse Stimuli

Practice Creative Exercises

Opportunities Everywhere: Embracing a World of Possibilities

Grateful and Thankful

No Judgment

CHAPTER 16: SETTING GOALS AND HOW TO ACHIEVE THEM

The Power of Ideas: A Catalyst for Innovation and Growth

The Genesis of Ideas

Fostering Creativity

From Idea to Innovation

The Economic Impact

The Power of Collaboration

Creating Plans to Achieve Success

Fear, Anxiety, Worry, and Stress: Understanding Fear

How to Set Goals

The Importance of Time Management

How to Achieve Goals

Define Your Goals

Break it Down

Develop a Routine

Overcome Obstacles

Seek Continuous Growth

Believe and Achieve Anything

The Power of Belief

Overcoming Self-Doubt

Cultivating Belief

Problems Equal Solutions

The Reward Effects: How Incentives Shape Behavior

The Science Behind Rewards

Incentives in the Workplace

Behavioral Economics

Gamification

Ethical Considerations

The Power of Tracking Your Progress

CHAPTER 17: HAPPINESS

Sadness: The Depths of Human Emotion

Defining Sadness

Causes of Sadness

Effects of Sadness

Coping with Sadness

Positive Sides of Sadness

Emotional Release

Increased Empathy

Self-Reflection and Growth

Strengthened Resilience

Appreciation of Joy

What is Happiness?

The Art of Creating Happiness: A Guide to a Fulfilling Life

The Quest for Happiness: Unveiling Its Elusive Origin

The External Factors

The Internal Factors

The Balance between External and Internal Factors

The Role of Genetics and Biology

The Importance of Being Happy: Unlocking the Key to a Fulfilling Life

Enhanced Mental and Physical Well-being

Increased Resilience and Emotional Intelligence

Boosted Productivity and Success

Improved Relationships and Social Connections

CHAPTER 18: SUCCESS

Failure

Embracing Failure

Learning Opportunities

Resilience and Perseverance

Innovation and Creativity

Humility and Growth

Overcoming Fear

The Secrets to Success

Defining Success

The Importance of Goal Setting

Embracing Failure as a Steppingstone

The Power of Self-Reflection and Continuous Learning

Finding Balance and Well-being

The Success of Hard Work

The Path to Success: A Journey of Patience and Perseverance

Developing the Art of Sharing

CHAPTER 19: LEADERSHIP

What is Leadership?

The Difference Between a Good Leader and a Bad Leader

A Good Leader

The Importance of Developing Your Character as a Leader

A Bad Leader

Acknowledgements

THE REASON BEHIND WRITING THIS BOOK

As a Certified Life Coach and Personal Development Coach, I migrated from Cameroon, Africa, from a small city called Yaoundé, to New York. It was a culture shock. Everything seemed like day and night. I almost gave up and decided to go back to Cameroon. Everything was different: the culture, the people, the food, the buildings, the streets – you name it. It was terrifying since I was about to go through major reconstruction, a transformation for which I was not ready.

Fast forward five years, I was completely lost. I started to act like my entourage, complaining about life, the government, the city, the traffic, the weather, blaming city policies, traffic signs, and the police for writing citations. After 10 years of doing that, I noticed that nothing changed; everything was the same. I was still doing the same thing, living in the same apartment, acting the same way I used to. I got tired of it. Why? I observed that while nothing seemed to work for me, others around me were doing better with their lives.

One night, I sat down in my pitch-black room and analyzed all my life, things that I did well and others I didn’t do well. I came to the realization that the problem was me; I was the problem. I didn’t know any better. And I needed to change. That is the day I said to myself, I had had enough. I signed up for Kindle Amazon books. The books that changed my life were The Power of Thinking for Yourself by Robbie Cornelius, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, The Richest Man in Babylon by George Samuel Clason and more. I turned my car into a library. On my way to work, on my way home, everywhere I drove, I was listening to tapes on YouTube about personal development. My favorites of all time: Jim Rohn, Earl Nightingale, Brian Tracy, Dr. Joe Dispenza and others. Anything that could help me enhance my mind and learn, I was eager to learn something new every day until these days. I started to listen to classical music. It completely changed me, transformed me into a whole new person. I started to experience abundance; things started to change for me. I started to attract success, I started to meet more people with a positive attitude, with the same mentality as me and so on.

Two years later, I was reborn as a new person. I decided to change by disciplining myself.

One day I sat in a cozy study, surrounded by shelves filled with books of all genres. That’s when a thought struck me: Why not write a personal development book?

I had always been an avid reader, finding fascination, solace, and inspiration in the words of others. However, I yearned to contribute something of my own to this world, especially since I was trapped in the same matrix. I had to break free from it to finally live the life I wanted. I aimed to share my experiences, insights, and lessons learned, hoping to help others navigate life’s complexities, discover their true potential, and be reborn as new individuals to ultimately live the lives they desired.

The decision to write a personal development book wasn’t an easy one. I knew it would require countless hours of research, introspection, and vulnerability. Delving deep into my past, confronting fears and failures, and addressing critics, I would need to distill knowledge into a format resonating with readers.

Believing that my unique perspective and life journey could offer valuable guidance to others also seeking personal growth and fulfillment, I envisioned a book that would inspire, motivate, and provide practical tools for self-improvement.

As I embarked on this writing journey, I poured my heart and soul onto the pages, reflecting on the setbacks, clarity and confusion experienced ten years ago, and the lessons learned from failure. Each chapter was written with the intention of guiding readers toward their own personal transformation.

Throughout the process, I discovered a newfound sense of purpose and fulfillment, battling my own demons, lack of knowledge, and limiting beliefs. Writing became my catharsis, a means to utilize my experiences and those of others, finding meaning in them all. I realized that writing a personal development book wasn’t only about helping others; it was also a journey of my own growth and self-discovery.

Months turned into years as I diligently worked on manuscripts. Seeking feedback from trusted friends and mentors, I refined my ideas and polished my prose. Finally, the day arrived when I held a physical copy of my book, a moment filled with immense pride and accomplishment.

My personal development book found its way into the hands of readers from all walks of life. I hope that people will resonate with my words, connect with my vulnerability, and find solace in the messages conveyed. Through this book, I aimed to touch lives, inspire change, and ignite a spark of personal growth in others.

As the years went by, I continued to write, sharing wisdom and life experiences. Each piece built upon the last, delving deeper into the complexities of personal development and offering new insights and perspectives.

In the end, my decision to write a personal development book was not solely about leaving a mark on the world but also about undergoing my own journey of self-discovery. Through my words, I discovered the power of vulnerability, the joy of sharing knowledge, and the transformative impact of personal growth.

INTRODUCTION

If people hadn’t told you what they did about God, what would you believe? If the world hadn’t designed your vision of life, what would you see? If the world hadn’t labeled you, who would you be today?

Life isn’t designed to give you what you want; it’s designed to give you what you deserve.

Breaking Through the Matrix

In a world where conformity and mediocrity often reign supreme, breaking through the matrix is the ultimate act of rebellion. It is the pursuit of liberation from the confines of societal expectations and the unleashing of one’s true potential. But what exactly does it mean to break through the matrix, and how can one accomplish this seemingly daunting task?

The matrix, in this context, refers to the system of beliefs, norms, and expectations that society imposes upon individuals. It is the invisible force that shapes our thoughts, actions, and aspirations. From a young age, we are conditioned to conform, to fit into predefined boxes that limit our creativity and stifle our dreams.

However, breaking through the matrix is about challenging these limitations and embracing a mindset of limitless possibilities. It is about questioning the status quo, reevaluating our beliefs, and daring to think outside the box. It is about discovering our unique talents and passions and pursuing them with unwavering determination.

One of the key elements in breaking through the matrix is cultivating self-awareness. By understanding our strengths, weaknesses, and values, we can align our actions with our authentic selves. This self-awareness allows us to make conscious choices that are in line with our true desires, rather than succumbing to societal pressures.

Another crucial aspect of breaking through the matrix is embracing failure as a steppingstone to success. Society often conditions us to fear failure and avoid taking risks. However, true growth and breakthroughs occur when we are willing to face challenges head-on and learn from our mistakes. Embracing failure as a learning opportunity allows us to push beyond our comfort zones and discover our true potential.

Furthermore, breaking through the matrix requires a shift in mindset. It means letting go of limiting beliefs and adopting a mindset of abundance and possibility. Instead of viewing the world as a place where opportunities are scarce, we must embrace the belief that there is enough success, happiness, and fulfillment for everyone. This mindset shift opens a world of possibilities and allows us to tap into our innate creativity and resourcefulness.

Breaking through the matrix is not an easy task. It requires courage, perseverance, and a willingness to challenge the status quo. It means stepping outside of our comfort zones and embracing the unknown. But the rewards are immeasurable. By breaking free from societal expectations, we can unleash our true potential and live a life of fulfillment and purpose.

So, how can one begin the journey of breaking through the matrix? Let me start by asking you a few questions to awaken your awareness.

Why do you think there are only a handful of private individuals controlling 97% of the world population?

Why do most people die poorly?

Why do some people succeed in life while others don’t?

Where are your everyday thoughts taking you?

Why is so much money flowing into industries like sports, Hollywood, social media, alcohol, drugs, pharmaceuticals, healthcare, and mass destruction artillery, such as nuclear bombs and more?

Answer these questions, ensuring whatever answers you come up with are the product of your own reasoning and conclusion.

My answer is: To keep you distracted so you will never question their practices or your existence or find your purpose in life.

It starts with self-reflection and introspection. Take the time to question your beliefs, values, and aspirations. Identify the areas in your life where you feel limited or constrained. Then, start taking small steps towards breaking free from these constraints. Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who support your journey and inspire you to think differently.

Breaking through the matrix is not a one-time event but an ongoing process, composed of 18 chapters, each guided by strategies and solutions to help you achieve and live the life you desire. It requires constant self-reflection, reprogramming of your entire life, and ongoing learning and growth. But with each breakthrough from chapter to chapter, you will find yourself inching closer to your true potential and living a life that is authentic and fulfilling.

So, are you ready to break through the matrix that controls 95% of the world? The choice is yours. Embrace the challenge, unleash your true potential, and create a life that is uniquely yours.

CHAPTER 1: THE MATRIX

The New World Order: A Paradigm Shift or a Conspiracy Theory?

Since the 20th century, have you wondered why humans have repeatedly engaged in wars against each other over the last 5,600 years? There have been around 14,500 wars leading to a staggering 3.5 billion casualties, which is almost half of the current global population’s age. The subject of war has not only fascinated peace organizations but also thinkers. They argue that while all living beings engage in battles for resources and territory, the aggressive tendencies observed in animals can’t be directly applied to humans, especially considering unique traits of human nature such as intelligence, consciousness, and morality. The difference between two predators fighting over prey and wealthy arms dealers profiting from ongoing conflicts is self-evident. Ancient Rome demonstrated how the struggle for survival could also function as wealthy amusement parks with the concept of bread, circuses, and gladiators who were made to combat one another to entertain the public and distract them from their own powerlessness.

Today, a similar approach is utilized through television, video games, telephones (which have by the way replaced television), radios, computers, and sports, offering respite for contented citizens from the harsh realities of their lives.

What is the media diverting our attention from? What knowledge could we potentially gain if we weren’t constantly inundated with information?

It’s evident that in any conflict between two people, a third party often reaps the benefits. The adage When two people fight, the third wins is well known. Applying this to any nation or even our entire world, they create problems such as wildfires, starvation, contaminated drinking water, prescribe poison instead of real medicine, create wars and conflicts around the world, and even create global pandemics such as COVID-19, with poor countries in Africa often serving as their testing ground. Their desire for global dominance is out of control.

Let me stop here.

When you follow the money, you see that at the bottom level, we go about our daily lives. Above us is the government, where people are given a monopoly on force and use it to tax and control us, whether or not we agree. But who controls them at the next level? Many would say that now it’s corporations, not states, that rule the world. To acquire the world’s resources and control the markets, these corporations must have access to cheap money. Big corporations get their loans at special rates from major banks, which ultimately control the corporations. As I follow the money, I’ve learned that almost everything I once believed about money