Kicked In The Ass Hard, And Still Here
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POWERFUL, riveting, sometimes terrifying, often funny true life "kick ass" stories to get you back on track and RECLAIM YOUR JOY.
Bulldoze fear. Reset each morning, experience change in as little as 10 minutes. Mrs. Henderson did just that after burying her
husband. She took herself to the middle of a misty lake, screamed at the top of her lungs, and suddenly felt alive again.
LR Knost: "LIfe is amazing. Then it's awful. Then it's amazing again."
The best news: rejoice--YOU'RE STILL HERE.
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Kicked In The Ass Hard, And Still Here - Jay Williams, PhD
Jay Williams, PhD
MOLLY AND SAM
They waited at the stage door.
A man and a woman.
In love.
In their eighties.
And they had a story to tell me.
Seventy five years ago, they played together.
In Europe.
In a dusty yard, two little kids.
In a concentration camp.
Both Jewish.
Molly and Sam felt safe together.
When the camp was liberated, they got separated.
Both wound up in America.
Both married other people.
Both lost their spouses.
And then a miracle.
They met, once again.
They got married.
Molly showed me her arm.
The number from the camp was still on her arm.
Life is hard.
Then it is simple.
Life is good.
Then it is horrible.
Then it is good again.
Molly and Sam.
Sam and Molly.
They told me their story.
They were in love.
And, thus, I start this book. Full of stories and moments that show us this:
VULNERABILITY=CLARITY=POWER
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I want to share with you some true moments that paved the way for change in my life and the life of people I knew. Molly and Sam (I changed their names) were two of the fortunate Jewish people in Europe who made it out alive at the end of World War Two.
Most of the people you will meet in these pages did well, made it out of their kick ass moments in a powerful way. A few were not as lucky.
DOUG
A typical day in New York City.
The doctor neatly cleared his desk.
––––––––
He slowly climbed many stairs to the very top floor of the building.
And jumped out the window.
––––––––
His pain was too much.
He was ready to leave.
Was this sweet relief?
I would like to think so.
Doug was my friend.
A caring, brilliant doctor.
He was loved.
I miss him.
DECIDING TO STAY
Charles had a gun in his pocket.
He was going back to his southern home.
To do harm to the male relative who had molested him as a young boy.
This fire
within him was shut up in his bones
as Charles had never told anyone his story. It was time to.
His momma sat on the step to the house.
She listened.
Sometimes you just gotta leave it in the road.
Wise momma.
Charles got rid of the gun.
The fire slowly was extinguished.
He decided to stay.
These moments are from an opera Fire Shut Up In My Bones.
More about this true story later.
WHY?
I was on the floor shouting and screaming, louder and louder. My brother had recently died at the age of 32. Why?
I was angry at myself and a bit angry with him.
On the edge, but not sure what to do about it. Got it out. Out of my body and out of my head.
Silence. Gentle silence.
My eyes closed.
Someone put a strawberry in my mouth.
I decided to stay.
KICK ASS
JIM grabbed me by the arm, took me into the laundry room, slammed the door shut, and kicked me in the ass. Hard.
It was not a punishment, it was a gift. Some 50
Years later I still appreciate that moment. It was a wake up call for me. What a jerk I had been. Yes, I was receiving a lot of attention for my work on stage. So what.
And, yes, I was being an ass: the applause went to my head. I did feel vulnerable with Jim in that room. The vulnerability gave me amazing clarity. It is a lesson that has stayed with me. I needed a quick fix
. I got it.
Many years later I was on the deck of the Intrepid on the Hudson River in NYC doing a film with Nicolas Cage, being blown around by a helicopter over my head. This was a scary moment as my body was being forced down an open staircase by the wind from the helicopter.
I kept holding on. I did not want to fall. And then the director wanted another take
, a better version of that scene. And he shouted Back To One,
That meant, get to your exact starting point so everything on screen would match. I went back to one and we did it again.
Back to one: each day we have the chance to go back to one,