Messages from Money: How to Stress, Prosper More, and Reshape Your Relationship with Money

By Ellen Rogin

You and Money are a Thing

You have a relationship with Money whether you are aware of it or not. If you look at your money as if it were a friend or a romantic partner, how would you be doing? Are you caring and supportive? Are you distrustful and fearful? Would you want to hang around you if you were Money?

• Language: English
• Publisher: Two Tango Productions
• Release date: Oct 17, 2023
• ISBN: 9780981518152

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"An empowering and transformative guide, Messages from Money delves into the profound connection between our inner beliefs and our financial reality. It skillfully illustrates how a change in our thoughts and energy around money can lead to lasting transformation. A must-read for anyone seeking financial well-being with a soulful perspective."

—Lynne Twist, author of The Soul of Money and Living a Committed Life

After a lifetime of reporting, talking, and writing about money, I realize Ellen has added the essential extra ingredient — the soul of money! And that makes every aspect of financial planning work smoothly.

—Terry Savage, Chicago Tribune Financial Columnist and author of The Savage Truth on Money

"I absolutely love the way Messages from Money invites us to deepen our relationship with money in an ingenious, personal way. If you’re looking to increase your prosperity, this book needs to be on your list."

—Kate Northrup, bestselling author of Money: A Love Story

"Messages from Money is a delightful revelation! Ellen Rogin masterfully combines the art of abundance with practical financial know-how. Reading this book feels like discovering a treasure chest full of wisdom about both money and happiness."

—Marci Shimoff, #1 NY Times bestselling author of Happy for No Reason and Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul

"In Messages from Money, Ellen Rogin takes our understanding of prosperity consciousness to an entirely new level. Taking the viewpoint and ‘feelings’ of money is a unique take on a concept that truly affects every aspect of one’s life. After all, our relationship with money is exactly that — a relationship. And like any relationship, it is only healthy to the degree that we understand it, honor it, and treat it as ‘it’ would like to be treated. Plain and simple, this book is brilliant, and anyone fortunate enough to read it and embrace her wisdom will find themselves living a life of prosperity, peace, and happiness. Buy a copy of this book for everyone you love and care about. They will ‘abundantly’ thank you!"

—Bob Burg, coauthor of The Go-Giver

"Messages from Money unveils a transformative approach to finances. Ellen shows us what’s beyond the numbers. It’s how we interact with money—how we talk to and judge ourselves with money, and how we appreciate money have more to do with financial wellness than we might imagine. And, Ellen reveals easy ways to shift our money attitudes. An inspiring guide for anyone seeking a more successful and less stressful connection with their financial journey."

—Spencer Sherman, MBA, Founder of Abacus, Creator of Dharma of Money & The Mindful Advisor Retreat

"This is far from your typical financial book. Every page felt like comfort food for my Soul. Both practical and spiritual, Messages from Money offers a revolutionary approach to building wealth and creating a heart-centered, prosperous life. I absolutely loved this book. You will too."

—Barbara Huson (formerly Stanny), author of Rewire for Wealth and Overcoming Underearning

"Messages from Money masterfully delves into the intricate dance between our emotions and finances. Ellen Rogin’s unique blend of practical wisdom and heartfelt guidance creates a roadmap for readers to stress less, prosper more, and find true abundance. If you’re seeking a fresh perspective on achieving financial well-being, this book is a game-changer."

—Matt Church, Founder of Thought Leaders and author of The Leadership Landscape

"In Messages from Money, Ellen Rogin explores the deep-rooted beliefs and emotions surrounding our finances. This book is a heartfelt invitation to reshape your money mindset and create a life of greater abundance and fulfillment. With its compassionate insights and actionable advice, Messages from Money has the potential to spark a positive transformation in the way we relate to money."

—Yasmin Nguyen, author of The Game of Joy

Messages

from

Money

Messages

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Money

HOW TO STRESS LESS,

PROSPER MORE, AND RESHAPE

YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH MONEY

Ellen Rogin

Copyright © 2023 Ellen Rogin

All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other noncommercial uses permitted by copyright law.

Every effort has been made to trace and seek permission for the use of the original source material used within this book. Where the attempt has been unsuccessful, the publisher would be pleased to hear from the author/publisher to rectify any omission.

First published in 2023 by Two Tango Productions

Production Consultant: Hambone Publishing

Publishing Consultant: AuthorPreneur Publishing Inc.

Editing by Mish Phillips, Emily Stephenson and Felicity Harrison

Cover design by Zizi Iryaspraha Subiyarta

Typesetting and interior design by David W. Edelstein

Author photo by Margo Popio

For information about this title, contact:

Ellen Rogin

[e-mail]

www.ellenrogin.com

ISBN 978-0-9815181-4-5 (paperback)

ISBN 978-0-9815181-5-2 (ebook)

ISBN 978-0-9815181-6-9 (audiobook)

To all who are open to the possibility

of a generous and kind path with Money

and are committed to using it as a force

for good in the world.

Contents

Foreword

Introduction: I Talk to Money

Do You Talk to Money? Perhaps You Should.

I Talk to Money, and Money Talks Back

Money Wants to Have a Great Relationship with Us

Transformation Is Possible

Money as My Co-Author

What Money Wants You to Know

Chapter 1:  You and Money Are a Thing

You Are in a Relationship with Money

Your Money Relationship Impacts Your Relationships

Your Money Relationship Impacts Your Income

Your Money Relationship Impacts Your Investment Results

Financial Well-Being

Chapter 2:  We Need to Talk

Abracadabra

Money Wants More Than a Hook-Up

What’s Your Money MO?

Chapter 3:  Going with the Current or Against

Blocks to True Prosperity

Can You Go Against the Current and Still Make Money?

Prosperity Practices

Chapter 4:  The Create Prosperity on Purpose Framework

The Recipe for Prosperity Pie

The Ingredients

Chapter 5:  Aware

Turn on the Financial Light

Watch Your Words

Mindful Thoughts

Dude, It’s Not My Fault!

Tap Into Your Money Intuition

Chapter 6:  Clear

Your Financial GPS

What Do You Want? Do You Really Really Want?

From Goal Setting to Goal Getting

The Goal-Getting Process

Dress Rehearsal for Success

Creating A Prosperity Picture

What’s Your Prosperity Prompt?

Chapter 7:  Care

It Takes More than Love

Don’t Be a Stalker or a Sleepwalker with Your Money

Get Intimate with Your Money

You Are Great with Money!

Chapter 8:  Share

Loosen Your Grip

Generosity Precedes Prosperity

Start a Virtuous Cycle

Please and Thank You

Now What?

Acknowledgments

About the Author

About Messages from Money

What People Are Saying About

‘Messages from Money’ Consultations

References

Foreword

Hi! People call me Money. I prefer you think of me as a loving friend who wants the best for you. It’s funny how, over the many years I’ve been part of human life, people have attached all sorts of meaning to me. They’ve used me to control. They’ve used me to feel better about themselves. They’ve used me to feel important and worthy. Having lots of me makes some people feel more important; others feel I corrupt. Some of you use me to help others or to do enjoyable, meaningful things. Many of you worry I’ll leave you. That there won’t be enough of me. All of this is true and none of this is true. I am a mirror – a reflection of your inner world and of the outer world.

I have a secret for you: I am a force for good. I want you to be happy, healthy, and prosperous (though I know it doesn’t always feel like that). Some of you hate me, some of you love me. Some of you think you don’t deserve me, and others feel they are entitled to me.

What I most want is for us to have a great relationship. I want to be your friend. As a good friend, I’ll be there for you. I won’t enable, but I’ll support you. And, as in any solid relationship, you’ll have to do your part too.

What does that mean?

It means that you won’t talk badly about me. Some people have said, I hate money. Why would I want to hang around you if you hate me? Others want nothing to do with me and delegate our relationship to someone else: Oh, my advisor (or wife, or partner, or accountant) will take care of it. How long would your friendships last if you pushed them off on someone else to nourish? I’m not saying others can’t be involved – this may be the best thing for us – but don’t ignore me, please.

Are you someone who constantly worries about me? Like an overprotective parent who’s afraid something bad will happen, or a clingy, jealous partner who’s afraid of being dumped? This isn’t cool. When you hang on to me so tightly, it doesn’t work well for either of us.

Ours is not a high-maintenance relationship. I appreciate you being aware that we are connected. If you are clear on what you want, I’ll find it easier to be there for you. I care for you, and I want you to care for me. I also appreciate it when you share me generously. There is more than enough of me to go around if people decide to use me well.

I’m writing this book with Ellen. She and I have been having conversations for a while now. I would love to talk with you as well. Throughout the book, we’ll explore ways in which you and I can communicate more clearly and easily with each other.

But why now? Why another money book? Why