PART ONE: Learn FAMILY LAW & survive Family COURT AS A LITIGANT IN PERSON with SUCCESS: An Idiots Guide to Family Court – Family Law In Laymen’s Terms

By Jason Applewotzit

"Surviving Family Court: A Guide to Navigating the System" is a must-read for anyone undergoing the complex family court process. Drawing on personal experience, the author provides valuable insights and practical advice on surviving a marriage with a narcissist and maintaining contact with your children without spending a penny on family solicitors. This book covers the legal aspects of the case in layman's terms, making it easy to understand. From theory to practice, this book provides a comprehensive guide to navigating family court with grace and resilience. Whether you are a father or mother, this book will help you prioritize your child's well-being and maintain your dignity. This book is a must-read if you are going through family court.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Apr 22, 2023
• ISBN: 9781471746314

Book preview

An Idiots Guide to Family Court – Family Law in Laymen’s Terms

1.0 Thank you to those that have supported me the most, and thank you to those that question my integrity and make me want to work harder, to be better!

Thank you for taking the time to read this book. I hope it proves to be very helpful for you. Personally, I wish I had access to a book like this when I was going through family court. This will be the first of many books where I share my story of how I survived being married to a narcissist and maintained a healthy relationship with my daughter without spending any money on family solicitors.

Firstly, I would like to express my gratitude to my daughter. She is my world, and my purpose for writing this book is to make sure she has the best life possible. I am incredibly proud of her strength and perseverance, and she inspires me every day to be the best version of myself.

I also want to thank my ex-wife for the difficulties she put me through. Without her, I would not be where I am today, and for that, I am eternally grateful.

In this book, I have put my learnings into simple terms to ensure that you understand what you are getting into and why you do not need a solicitor. I firmly believe that family law should prioritize resolution rather than conflict and that family law solicitors often worsen situations. The system is set up to encourage conflict from the moment you file a C100 or a non-molestation order.

This book covers the legal aspects of the case in layman's terms, making it easy to understand. In Part Two, I will delve into the theory behind everything, giving you a clearer understanding of what it looks like in court. This book is not meant to be the most exciting read, but it is factual and will help you understand what is going on in family court.

If you have ever felt that everything you have been taught about family court is wrong, you are not alone. Going into a courtroom highly antagonized and angry will not make you look like the doting parent that you are. Even if you come from a toxic relationship, you can still be a loving parent. It is crucial to remain child-focused, humble, and pragmatic. Compromise and show sacrifice where necessary.

Sticking to these fundamental principles throughout the case will serve you well. Knowing what you do not know and being aware of what is around the corner will ease the fear of the unknown.

Finally, I would like to express that if we were taught from birth how to behave in a separated family, it would be easier for us to navigate family court. In Part Two, I will go into greater detail about this topic.

I hope you enjoy reading this book and look out for Part Two. Remember to put into practice what you learn from this book.

It is important not to get bogged down in the technicalities of the Family Court procedure. The courts are generally understanding of individuals who may make mistakes in their proceedings or who are not familiar with legal jargon. While it is not necessary to memorize every detail of the court process, having a general understanding of the necessary steps can help you focus on the key aspects of your case: the facts and the desired outcome. Rather than focusing on technicalities, it is more productive to focus on presenting relevant information and evidence to support your case. Additionally, it is important not to rely solely on legal statutes to provide the answer to your case. While statutes such as the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 or the Children Act 1989 outline the factors the court must consider, they do not dictate the outcome. Ultimately, the judge has a wide discretion in making decisions and will weigh all relevant information before determining what is fair and in the best interests of the child or children involved.

It is important to approach case law with caution when dealing with your own case. While previous judgments can provide some guidance on how the court may rule, each case has its own unique set of circumstances that must be considered. It can be