The Locker Room: How Great Teams Heal Hurt, Overcome Adversity, and Build Unity
By Stephen Mackey and Damon West
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A Wall Street Journal Bestseller
Explore the power of communication to heal hurt, overcome adversity, and build a unified team
In The Locker Room, bestselling author Damon West and player development coach Stephen Mackey team up to explore difficult conversations about eliminating both discrimination and the cancel culture, as well as overcoming adversity. The book tells the story of four characters: two high school football coaches and two players, each of whom must deal with the fallout of an offensive comment that severely disrupts the unity and cohesion of their locker room and threatens to destroy their team.
In The Locker Room, you’ll find:
- A guide to building an inclusive culture
- The blueprint for using servant leadership and a willingness to listen to break down barriers
- Encouragement to have the difficult conversations that lie at the heart of modern life
- Strategies for navigating your personal and professional life in a way that gracefully deals with the realities of prejudice, discrimination, and cancel culture
- Techniques for giving all people an equal voice and an equal chance at success through learning with humility and teaching with grace
An indispensable exploration of some of the most critical and most difficult issues faced by professionals, coaches, athletes, and students today, The Locker Room is a must-read resource that belongs in the libraries of anyone who seeks a life or culture that can not only overcome adversity, but can also use it to reach their goals and improve their communities.
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The Locker Room - Stephen Mackey
The Locker Room
How Great Teams Heal Hurt, Overcome Adversity, and Build Unity
DAMON WEST
Bestselling Coauthor of The Coffee Bean
STEPHEN MACKEY
Player Development Coach
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COVER ART & DESIGN: PAUL McCARTHY
I dedicate this to my father, Bob West. As a sports writer, you used sports to teach me many valuable life lessons. I still look up to you today, just as I did when I was a kid.
Love,
Damon
I dedicate this to my bride, Teressa. Thank you for your love, support, humility, and grace.
Love,
Stephen
Preface
At the heart of coaching is a deep-rooted commitment to helping people become the best versions of themselves. The role of a coach is to see the potential in people and then do everything within their power to help them get there. As a coach, you're less concerned with the end goal—although every coach wants to win!—and more concerned with the progress your athletes make.
Great coaches, as with other great leaders, must be willing to give the best of themselves to set the example for the cultures they wish to build. In that spirit—to give our best to help you become your best—we have created a short story about a team, hurt and divided, which needed the Locker Room to help them heal, unite, and overcome.
Before entering the Locker Room, we would like to offer some insight into a few of the choices made.
We chose the Locker Room as the location of this story because we both have experienced the power of the Locker Room in sports. We are both former athletes (we won't talk about who was the better athlete) and have seen the Locker Room break down barriers and transform lives. While the Locker Room is a physical place for athletes, it has its analogues for students in a classroom, executives in a boardroom, workers in any workplace, service men and women in the Armed Forces, and people in their communities. The Locker Room can be made up of 100 people or just two people sitting across from each other.
The Locker Room is anywhere that:
People from different backgrounds, with different hurts, hang-ups, and histories come together for a common goal.
The standard is the standard, and it isn't lowered because of talent, position, or for short-term gain.
Diversity of skill, ability, and personality aren't challenges to overcome, but the very strengths that will allow a team to overcome any challenge.
Making a mistake doesn't make you a mistake.
Hard days are endured; hard conversations are engaged; hard truths are received; hard consequences grow into encouragement to become your best.
Success of the individual is always secondary to the success of the team.
Sports felt an appropriate setting for our story because sports has the power to transcend boundaries; the lessons learned in sports eclipse athletics, helping people become the fullness of who they were created to be.
People from different backgrounds come together in the Locker Room to unite around a common goal. The Locker Room is the setting to engage in difficult conversations about race and discrimination because these are issues that coaches, athletes, leaders, and companies are seeking to address.
The ideas discussed in this story can help anyone begin the conversation toward