Unraveling Gender: The Battle Over Sexual Difference
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Unraveling Gender - John Grabowski
CHAPTER ONE
THE BEACONS ARE
LIT: WARNINGS ABOUT
GENDER IDEOLOGY
On Shadowfax! We must hasten. Time is short. See! The beacons of Gondor are alight, calling for aid. War is kindled. See, there is the fire on Amon Dîn, and the flame on Eilenach; and there they go speeding west; Nardol, Erelas, Min-Rimmon, Calenhad, and the Halifirien on the borders of Rohan.
¹
—Gandalf the White, The Return of the King
The wizard Gandalf says these words at the beginning of the third volume of J.R.R. Tolkien’s Lord of the Rings trilogy. Gandalf is here addressing his great horse Shadow-fax as he and Pippin the hobbit ride to war in Minas Tirith, Gondor’s main surviving city. The people of Gondor lit great fires atop some of the flanking White Mountains to warn of the impending attack by the forces of Mordor and to implore its neighbor and ally, Rohan, to send aid for the coming battle. These beacons thus functioned as an alarm system for the peoples of Middle Earth.
In recent years, the Church has sounded, with increasing force, a series of warnings concerning an ideology of gender.
This term describes a set of ideas that challenge and undermine basic Christian beliefs about the human person: male and female, made in the image of God, the goodness of the body, and the importance of marriage and family. Gender ideology is not, as some have suggested, nonsense
that has no clear referent.
² It is very real and poses a formidable threat to the Faith and to human flourishing.
In many ways, these warnings are like the lighting of the beacons on the White Mountains—they announce the coming battle and call for aid—from both those inside of the Church and those of goodwill outside of her. In this case, the battle is not against corrupted human beings and an array of evil creatures such as orcs and trolls as in Tolkien’s mythology, but against a set of ideas antithetical to human dignity and flourishing. The battle for the soul of our age is being fought—not on the fields of the Pelennor—but on the terrain of ideas about family, marriage, and sexual difference.
A Different Kind of Battle
Before proceeding, it is worth thinking more fully about the nature of this battle
—what it is, and what it is not. The opponents in the battle are not people who identify as LGBTQ+. Tragically, such persons have been and continue to be targets of rejection, discrimination, persecution, and even overt violence within our society—at times by members of their own families or church communities. This hostility, along with more subtle forms of rejection, often leads to depression or other mental health issues for such persons. Meghan DeFranza describes the problems facing people who identify as transgender:
Fifty-seven percent have family members who refuse to speak to them, 50–54 percent experience harassment at school, 60 percent have been refused health care by physicians, 64–65 percent have suffered physical or sexual violence, 57–70 percent have been discriminated against/or victimized by law enforcement, and 69 percent have experienced homelessness. Even more harrowing are the suicide rates. In the general population, the 4.6 percent rate of suicide attempts is deeply troubling, but this rate is more than double (10–20 percent) for lesbian, gay, and bisexual persons, and skyrockets to 41–46 percent for transgender and gender nonconforming people. For gender noncon-forming and transgender people of color, the rate is terrifyingly high: 54–56 percent.³
To respond with abuse or violence toward persons with same-sex attraction or struggling with their gender identity is morally wrong and deserves unequivocal condemnation.⁴ Further, the Church teaches that every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided,
⁵ so the basic human rights of these persons should be protected by law, public policy, and by their neighbors.
Many persons who might describe themselves as LGBTQ+ have no desire to advance a particular political or social agenda—they simply want to live their lives in peace and without harassment from others. Those who are Christian also hope to find in their churches support in living out their call to follow Christ, while also contending with the experience of same-sex attraction or gender dysphoria. Some of these people might describe themselves as gay,
lesbian,
queer,
or transgender.
⁶ Some might reject these terms as reductive and simply speak about their experience of same-sex attraction or gender discordance. The Catechism notes that the pain and difficulty of such an experience can be an opportunity for these believers to unite themselves to the Cross of Christ and so to grow in holiness.⁷ Like any form of suffering met with faith and love, this particular struggle can bear fruit and become a gift in the life of the individual Christian and in the wider Church community. But to acknowledge the miraculous ability of God’s grace to bring good out of suffering and pain is not a license to inflict still more suffering through mistreatment. Christians are called to respond with respect, compassion, and sensitivity
⁸ to the suffering of their same-sex attracted or gender dysphoric brothers and sisters.
Yet, there are those—both inside and outside of the group of persons who identify as LGBTQ+—who have a political and social agenda aimed at deconstructing or exploding what they see as an oppressive gender binary. These proponents of gender ideology often use their positions of influence in government, the media, academia, or the culture to advance their views and to silence those who question or disagree with them. These activists, however, are ultimately not the opponents in this battle to which the Church’s warnings draw our attention. Rather, it is the ideas that they promote and disseminate, and the spiritual roots of these ideas, that are the primary opponents in this battle. In a Christian context, the language of warfare always has a spiritual referent. Our battle is against the powers of evil—sin and the devil—in ourselves, and in the world around us (see Eph 6:10–17). Other human beings are not the real enemy in this battle.
Gender ideology’s ideas and views of the human person are antithetical to both human reason and Christian faith. When implemented, they work to undermine the goodness of the human body, the reality of sexual difference, the distinctive gifts of men and women, sexual complementarity, the connection between marriage and the gift of children, and the irreplaceable nature of the family as the basis of a healthy human society. When these goods are threatened, all the members of society suffer and their ability to flourish is jeopardized.
The nature and origin of these ideas will be made clearer in the pages that follow, but, for now, two things should be evident. First, the language and imagery of a battle
used in this book or in the Church’s teaching is in no way an invitation to hostility, animosity, or violence against human beings—even against the most strident advocates of gender ideology. These individuals are made in the image and likeness of God and are offered redemption in Christ, and they too have the same human dignity and value as all other persons. They deserve to be treated with respect and charity, even in the midst of debate and disagreement aimed at refuting their ideas. Second, the Church holds that her members are called to speak out against these false views of the human person precisely because of her commitment to the dignity of the human person. To fail to do so would be an abdication of the Church’s responsibility. The justice and charity that we owe to others is grounded in and demands the truth—the full truth about the human person as made and loved by God. Because she has received the truth of Revelation, the Church believes herself to be an expert in humanity
and qualified to speak on behalf of the human