This week we are joined by author Rachel Joy Welcher, as we discuss all things purity culture - and where it went wrong! We so appreciate Rachel joining us and giving her insight!Links to things mentioned:The Blog: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire https://instagram.com/sheilagregoire The Great Sex Rescue (pre-order!): https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827  Check out Rachel's book "Talking Back to Purity Culture" :https://www.amazon.ca/Talking-Purity-Culture-Rachel-Welcher/dp/0830848169Find Rachel on twitter: https://twitter.com/racheljwelcher Why arousal can be difficult for women if they don't understand the sexual progression:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/05/podcast-extras-arousal-the-missing-piece/ More information on women and porn:  https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2016/05/women-porn-addiction/ Check out Rebecca's book "Why I Didn't Rebel":  https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/why-i-didnt-rebel/