Turning Points: Character Forged in the “Crucible of Combat”

By Carolyn Salerno-Brydges EdD

No one can speak about the souls of the men who served in the Vietnam War except those service members who actually fought on the ground, in the air, and on the sea. Only these special individuals can describe their combat experiences, affording us powerful insights into their personalities, behaviors, and morals with vivid descriptions of life-altering warfare events that remolded each man in his own “Crucible of Combat.” Life-altering decisions and close combat actions have awe-inspiring and permanent impacts on individuals and recast the very core of every individual, as well as their values, convictions, vulnerabilities, strengths and perceptions. The accounts of closely-contested battle situations and ultimate survival are exclusive life scenarios full of unexpected plot twists, with capture or death possible consequences.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Trafford Publishing
• Release date: Aug 26, 2021
• ISBN: 9781698709062

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Copyright 2021 Carolyn Salerno-Brydges, EdD.

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Editor: Jon M. Corey, PhD.

ISBN: 978-1-6987-0904-8 (sc)

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DEDICATION

In memoriam I want to dedicate this book of heroes’ stories to my

late husband, Commander Richard R. Brydges. What I thought

would be a forthright effort is now far more difficult than I

could have ever envisioned, as I attempted to summarize in this

short space what a genuinely wonderful husband, father, friend,

gentleman, and Navy officer Rick was—despite his facing a series

of long-term challenges most individuals could not endure.

Rick encompassed every quality and trait that makes for a truly

good man. He was intelligent, compassionate, loving, and

dedicated by any measure. Moreover, Rick was the love of

my life—and he will be always. He was a cherished comrade,

and he was respected by everyone with whom he came in

contact. Comparisons to Rick R. Brydges simply cannot be

made as he stood out as a steadfast role model for others.

He was truly a "…Sequoia among the pines…."

His Loving Wife, Carolyn Brydges

CONTENTS

Foreword

Introduction

TURNING POINTS

Baptism by Fire

Different Situations–But The Same Dynamics!

Enduring Memories

By the Grace of God Go I

War is Terrible

First Night in Vietnam

On Patrol

A Lifetime of Service

Closing

FOREWORD

MAJ Jon M. Corey, PhD

No one can speak about the souls of the men who served in the Vietnam War except those service members who actually fought on the ground, in the air, and on the sea. Only these special individuals can describe their combat experiences, affording us powerful insights into their personalities, behaviors, and morals with vivid descriptions of life-altering warfare events that remolded each man in his own crucible of combat. Life-altering decisions and close combat actions have awe-inspiring and permanent impacts on individuals and recast the very core of every combatant, as well as their values, convictions, vulnerabilities, strengths, and perceptions. The accounts of closely contested battle situations and ultimate survival are exclusive life scenarios full of unexpected plot twists, with capture, injury or death possible consequences.

As I noted based on my experience as a professor of psychology and my citations for the Silver Star, Distinguished Flying Cross, Bronze Star for Valor, Air Medal for Valor, Combat Infantryman Badge, and Purple Heart, military soldiers fight with great honor, unbounded tenacity, and limitless courage primarily to defend their fellow troops—nothing is more important. Taking risks for one’s military unit and comrades and surviving are uniquely powerful, and doing so internalizes one’s thinking and loyalty on a virtually permanent basis.

In studying the accounts of harrowing battle situations and ultimate survival on the ground, in the air, and on the sea by military personnel who were undeniably transformed forever by combat, we can hope to understand how military leaders accomplish great things and appreciate what drives them and their fellow service members.

The American War Library estimates that approximately 610,000 Americans who served on land, in the air, or in the waters of Vietnam between 1954 and 1975 are alive today. Many of the life-altering, combat-intense turning points shared by some of these armed services officers and enlisted personnel highlight these individuals’ values in providing a lasting legacy for their families and nationwide patriotic organizations via a virtual crucible of combat. These firsthand accounts memorialize ideals based on love, loyalty, duty, and acts of transformational leadership to deal with the challenges of life, as well as principles of working together as families and comrades.

INTRODUCTION

MAJ Jon M.