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Derailed by History - Alister Renaux
HISTORY
38021.pngTHE ANGLO-INDIAN STORY
ALISTER RENAUX
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© 2017 Alister Renaux. All rights reserved.
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Published by AuthorHouse 08/23/2017
ISBN: 978-1-5246-6333-9 (sc)
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For Calvin and Caitlin, who need to know where they come from so that they are more sure of where they are headed.
Dedicated to:
Norman Charles White
Joseph Eugene Renaux
Agnes Gertrude White
Flora Marjorie Renaux and
Dean D’souza
Contents
Acknowledgements
Prologue
Chapter 1 What is in a Name?
Chapter 2 Sex
Chapter 3 Identity
Chapter 4 An Indian Institution
Chapter 5 Another Institution
Chapter 6 A Truly Anglo-Indian Icon
Chapter 7 Christmas in the Colony
Chapter 8 Made for Each Other
Chapter 9 Don’t Give Me the Fijacks!
Chapter 10 What is for Dinner?
Chapter 11 Staying Back – Going Away
Chapter 12 Scattered Siblings
Chapter 13 Pieces of Wood
Chapter 14 Dingo Dango
Chapter 15 Putting the Pieces Together
Chapter 16 The Search
Chapter 17 Hollywoods
Chapter 18 Part of the Fabric
Chapter 19 A Scattered People
Chapter 20 A Sport Migrated
Chapter 21 Assimilation
Chapter 22 Coming Together
Chapter 23 Identity Revisited
Chapter 24 Ency Whyte
Acknowledgements
When I told Elizabeth, my wife, that I was surprised with the tenacity and rapidity - five days - that led to the writing of this book, she replied, It has been gestating for a long time now; it needed to be delivered!
To Elizabeth, for all the reading and suggestions - thank you very much. Thank you, also, for giving me the time to sit down at my Macbook for hours on end to get this manuscript done. Thank you, also, for all the conversations you have endured even though you do not have an iota of Anglo-India in you.
To my parents, for reading through my notes every time I sent a draft across; thank you for your suggestions, encouragement and comments that helped me even further. To Mum, thanks for all the Whatsapp conversations. To Dad, thanks for Renaux Railways and the illustration of Hollywoods.
To my brothers, Mark, Ralph and Bob - thanks for all the help and assistance, especially with the photographs.
To aunties, Mary and Rosamund - thanks for the emails and messages which sent loads of encouragement. To Hyacinth and David - thanks for the feedback from England.
To Uncle Eugene D’Cruz - thank you for years of random conversations via Facebook. Our conversations have been so mutually beneficial that you were the first person I thought of when I started writing this book. Thanks also, for the use of some of your photographs and illustrations.
To my students, thanks for giving me a year to remember. I enjoyed it so much and it encouraged me to start off on a project that has long been dear to my heart.
Alister Renaux, aka Ency Whyte
Prologue
Bugger off!
I tentatively pulled my phone away from my ear on a rather crisp August afternoon in London after hearing that dismissive, but very Anglo-Indian expletive and wondered whether I would have reacted in the same manner had I been on the other end of the phone line. I had simply called a Southall number and uttered these words, May I speak to Mrs Jacobs? I do believe that she is my grandmother’s sister.
It was upon hearing those words that the gentleman on the other end of the line gave me that rather memorable goodbye!
Given that we are in a rather dangerous day and age, where prank calls, junk mail, spam and hacking can arouse the tiniest hint of suspicion, it might have been quite normal for my first cousin once removed to have reacted to my phone call in that manner. After all, I must have been just some random Indian guy visiting London and had placed the phone call, hoping to make a fast buck! In retrospect, I do believe that my call was most definitely the proverbial bolt from the blue.
Mrs Jacobs - a nonagenarian - did eventually return my call the following day, apologising for her son’s ‘rude’ behaviour and invited me over to their Southall home on the outskirts of London anytime that week, oblivious to the fact that our meeting would act as a catalyst that would stimulate my interest in genealogy.
I was thirty-two at the time, visiting England with my wife, Elizabeth and one-year old son, Calvin. Elizabeth’s two sisters were in London and Sunderland, and we had decided to incorporate the quintessential touristy trip into our agenda with visits to those two cities, the Lake District and quite ironically - in hindsight - to take in a train trip from the North East to the North West of England all along Hadrian’s Wall. I was blissfully ignorant at that time, but now, when I look back, I was actually traversing the same terrain that my ancestors lived in over three centuries ago.
When I visited Mrs Jacobs, my grandmother’s sister, in Southall, I was introduced to first cousins once removed, second cousins and second cousins once removed, all of whom I was meeting for the first ever time in my life! Growing up in India, I was vaguely informed of Aunties Noreen (Mrs Jacobs) and Bina, but I hardly gave them much thought until that memorable August afternoon. My visit to Southall was followed by an equally memorable meeting with Mr Denzil Fernandez (Bina’s husband), who regaled our little family with tales of Madras of a long time ago. I can still recall the sparkle in his eyes and the youthfulness in his voice as he told me of a city and country I was born in thirty-two years ago; a city and country he last saw forty years ago: his Madras, my Chennai! It was then that the germ of an idea sprouted and which, has since taken on a life of its own. However, for long, this life gestated in the womb of my mind. Now it is time to deliver it on paper for the world to adopt, if it ever will.
Aunt%20noreen.jpgAuntie Noreen Jacobs, cajoling her great-grand-nephew, Calvin.
Chapter 1
What is in a Name?
The surname is obviously French, but you are Indian? That is confusing!
These were words uttered by an American gentleman at our second meeting.
I explained my mixed heritage while watching a face whose eyes gleamed brighter and whose smile grew more incredulous with the passing of each word. He had never come across an Anglo-Indian before, or even if he had, he hadn’t heard the story.
You are not Indian. You are bloody colonial!
screamed a South African colleague when I gave him a