Mind & Body: Mental exercises for physical wellbeing; physical exercises for mental wellbeing
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Self-Improvement
Self-Discovery
Inner Strength
Mind-Body Connection
Power of Perspective
Nature as a Healer
Power of Dance
Value of Humility
Benefits of Simplicity
Benefits of Vulnerability
Value of Self-Disclosure
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A practical and playful guide to balancing and maintaining physical and mental harmony.
The modern world can present the body as a machine that just needs to be regularly exercised. However, it is a remarkably sensitive organ in which a lot of our pain and hope is stored and that we need to interpret and handle with subtlety. This impact of our body upon our mind is something which needs to be explored as it is easy to pay attention to one more than the other and to ignore the crucial balance between the two.
This is a book filled with reflections and exercises designed to help us live more harmoniously and maturely within both mind and body. It gives guidance on how to calm our minds with bodily exercises that work on the real sources of our anxieties. It suggests how to be less rigid in, and timid about, our bodies and how to relax into them in a way we might not have done for far too long. It offers ideas on how to accept the way we look, and how to treat the body in order for it to assist the mind in yielding its very best ideas. The impacts of activities such as singing, dancing and art are explored along with the liberation of spirit that these might offer.
This is a book, both theoretical and practical, that will improve our relationship between our physical and mental selves and allow us a route to a life of greater self-assurance, wisdom, and freedom to be ourselves.
*Contains explicit/adult content
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Jul 16, 2021
A thought-provoking one. Somehow similar like Sapiens, more or less.
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Introduction: The mind-body problem
One of the most peculiar things about being human is that we exist as both minds and bodies. We are in part miraculous machines hung off collagen and calcium skeletons, irrigated by five litres of watery plasma richly packed with erythrocytes and leukocytes driven along 100,000 miles of blood vessels by a pump that beats 100,000 times a day using power released by the breakdown of potato chips and carrot sticks, buttered toast and lemon pie, all tightly sealed in a one-litre vat filled with a mixture of hydrochloric acid and potassium and sodium chloride.
And yet we are at the same time minds that have memories, imagination, emotions and ideals, unique centres of consciousness that can blend an infinity of fears and insights, excitements and regrets into an unfolding story of identity; minds that can conjure up worlds from spectral blankness, that can classify and order chaos, that can turn mute cries into poetry and agony into arias, that can devise ideas to die or live for and that crave beauty and aspire to wisdom – all within a squelchy 1,400-gram walnut encased in a cavity discreetly silent as to the many universes it contains.
illustrationA brain tells us nothing of what it is like to have a mind.
But the two sides of our nature are not only very different; they are also engaged in ongoing and often painful conflict. We wish to be loved and respected for the subtleties of our minds but are in practice more likely to be judged on the shape of our nose and the suppleness of our skin; we seek to impress and reassure with a suggestion of dignity but can’t put ourselves beyond the risk of burping or of breaking wind; we long for calm and reason but are fatefully betrayed by debauchery and licentiousness. We hope to honour those we love, do justice to our talents and finish writing our books, but may be ineluctably drawn to nightclubs, too many drinks and the more shameful corners of the internet.
And what is worse, without our conscious selves having any say in the matter, our bodies have catastrophic inclinations to fall apart and die long before we have got the hang of living; before we have tired of seeing springtime or done a fraction of what we suspect we might be capable of.
illustrationGerard van Honthorst, The Steadfast Philosopher, 1623. Mind and body are set in opposed and often inimical directions.
This cluster of tensions, pains and incompatibilities might collectively be referred to as ‘the mind-body problem’. Those of a philosophical bent will know that, in academic circles, ‘the mind-body problem’ means something quite specific. It has been the term used to describe a very particular question identified in the 1640s by the French mathematician and philosopher René Descartes (1596–1650). Descartes wished to know how a purely mental thought could have physical consequences: how, for instance, might a wish to drink a glass of water lead one physically to take a sip? Descartes imagined the material world like a complex set of billiard balls: everything happens in it because one thing pushes another. But a thought doesn’t seem to have any material properties: it has no physical weight, so how could it be involved in pushing anything? How could it make something physical move? How could a weightless thought cause the muscles of our fingers to contract? Although no really convincing strategy for answering this question was available until the rise of neuroscience at the end of the 20th century, the question of how thoughts might lead to physical motion seriously troubled only a very small minority. It would therefore be a pity if the resonant phrase ‘the mind-body problem’ were forever to be attached only to this arcane conundrum, the answer to which no element of human happiness has ever seriously depended upon. It therefore feels fitting to reappropriate and employ the phrase to refer to all the dilemmas thrown up for us by our dual nature as physical bodies on the one hand and as thinking and dreaming souls on the other.
At the core of the mind-body problem thus redefined is the question of whether there might be a way of reducing the strife between the different parts of ourselves. What is the best way to flourish given our dual natures? Can mind and body be constructive companions rather than ill-tempered enemies? Can we learn to accommodate our varied selves with grace? This is the enquiry at the heart of this book, a journey to discover ways of reconciling mind and body in the name of leading more harmonious and less fractured lives.
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Over the centuries, there have been some unfortunate ways of responding to the tensions between mind and body. The most notable and emblematic of these began in the early 3rd century with the Christian intellectual and saint Origen of Alexandria.
illustrationUnknown artist, Origen, from Numeros homilia XXVII, c. 1160.
Origen of Alexandria: the dawn of the mind-body problem.
Origen was an extremely pious man, one of whose earliest wishes was to die as a martyr to Christ. He thought of revealing his faith to the Roman authorities and then awaiting the mandatory death sentence, but after mentioning his ambition to his mother, let himself be persuaded to become an academic instead. He turned out to have great talent in this area, and wrote twenty-five volumes of commentary on the Gospel of St Matthew and 2,000 treatises on biblical hermeneutics.
But despite his devotion to his holy studies, Origen couldn’t ignore certain powerful physical attractions that coursed through him. He came to see the body as a prison and argued that we are ‘fallen angels’ who used to live in heaven but were turned away from God and, as a punishment, had our souls locked up in packets of sinful, suffering flesh. After growing overwhelmed by feelings for one of his biblical students, reputedly the most beautiful nun in Egypt, Origen decided to cut off his penis and testicles in order to avoid further temptation and make himself ‘a eunuch for the kingdom of heaven’. Whether he actually did so is a matter of historical dispute, but Origen’s supporters (and the Christian Church more broadly) enthusiastically spread the rumour as proof of exemplary virtue and wisdom, rather than – as others might have proposed – an indication of psychopathology.
illustrationUnknown miniaturist, Origen Castrating Himself before a Nun, 14th century, from Roman de la Rose, c. 1380.
One way of responding to the mindbody problem: Origen castrating himself rather than submitting to the physical attractions of a nun.
Origen’s feelings towards his body set the tone for hundreds of years of Christian morality. The body was deemed weak and the realm of the devil; freedom and happiness could only be found by controlling, censoring and, ultimately, destroying this unruly vessel. Under the aegis of Origen’s ideas, the faithful in Medieval Europe took to whipping themselves in public squares to demonstrate the intensity of their faith and the purity of their hearts.
illustrationHartmann Schedel, untitled illustration from the Nuremberg Chronicle, c. 1493. Flagellants proving their devotion to Christ.
A thousand years after Origen’s birth in the 12th century, many of the grandest, most elaborate buildings were decorated with statues that conveyed his ideas about the body. At Chartres, thirty miles south-west of Paris, the doors of the cathedral were flanked by static, elongated, ethereal figures, representing the most revered characters of the Christian story. In these saints, the soul had conquered and neutered the body, leaving it limp and docile – a far cry from the muscular, dynamic forms depicted in classical Greek and Roman statues. These saintly beings had no lustful motions and no recognisable muscular arrangement. They were not about to head to the ale house, wolf down a pie, flirt with a neighbour or throw a discus beyond a line of cypress trees.
illustrationThe Townley Discobolus, c. 460–450 BCE;
illustrationStatues of the Royal Portal, Chartres Cathedral, c. 1145–1245. A far cry from the Greeks; the Christian ideal of a tamed and meek body.
This physical blankness wasn’t what medieval people thought they could achieve themselves. They were horribly conscious of their own earthy and lustful tendencies. What the statues signalled was how they thought they could be if only they could control their wayward sacks of flesh.
illustrationMedieval gargoyle, Rufford Abbey, c. 1147–1170. Medieval reality.
Perhaps Origen’s most consequential conviction was his argument that Jesus (the person he most admired) must himself have been ugly and lacking in physical allure, for only then could his followers have been convinced by his philosophy rather than his physique. Origen proposed that God would have made him look as repulsive as possible in order to guarantee that our love for him would be sincere. This sounds like a bizarre point of theological controversy. In fact, it was an attitude that shaped the mentality of half the planet for a dominant share of human history. Even today, we find it hard to imagine that a thoughtful and profound soul could exist in an alluring physical envelope, and might instinctively doubt an intellectual who looked as though they might be able to moonlight as a model.
Without any of Origen’s religious baggage, we still have moods in which we consider our bodies to be the source of an overwhelming share of our troubles, and might happily dispose of them if we could. The English novelist Kingsley Amis (1922–1995), towards the end of a long life, looking back over decades of sexual complications and regrettable drunken evenings, quipped of having a body: ‘for fifty years, it was like being chained to an idiot’.
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There is another, radically different approach: to assume that the body is an uncomplicated friend that we can celebrate and enjoy without wariness or difficulty, merely by deciding to relax our muscles and breathe a little more deeply. This can be the impression given off by certain health clubs, sports enthusiasts, healers and sex-positive evangelists who may unwittingly imply that 2,000 years of shame and suspicion around the body might have been an unfortunate accident, with no profound roots in human nature, and require nothing more to shake off than a momentary effort of the will, a refreshing trip to the sports centre or the right sort of scented candle and body oil.
illustrationThe novelist Kingsley Amis, tightly chained to his ‘idiot’.
But such optimism doesn’t feel true to our natures either. We don’t have to be tempted by castration to know that our bodies can be tricky entities to live around, that shame is real, that conflicting impulses have their costs and that sex is always at risk of sitting somewhat bizarrely alongside other things we care about. The solution to the mind-body problem is neither to let the mind win, nor to give the advantage wholly to the body; it’s to recognise that there are problems and to try to find the most elegant and imaginative ways to assuage them.
Part of the solution lies in a word we’re
