Christians Get Depressed Too
By David Murray
4.5/5
()
About this ebook
Many Christians mistakenly believe that true Christians don’t get depressed, and this misconception heaps additional pain and guilt onto Christians who are suffering from mental and emotional distress.
Author David P. Murray comes to the defense of depressed Christians, asserting that Christians do get depressed! He explains why and how Christians should study depression, what depression is, and the approaches caregivers, pastors, and churches can take to help those who are suffering from it.
With clarity and wise biblical insight, Dr. Murray offers help and hope to those suffering from depression, the family members and friends who care for them, and pastors ministering to these wounded members of their flock.
Table of Contents:1. The Crisis
2. The Complexity
3. The Condition
4. The Causes
5. The Cures
6. The Caregivers
Appendix: On the Sufficiency of Scripture: Salvation, Sanctification, and Spectacles
David Murray
David Murray (PhD, Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam) has pastored four churches in Scotland and the USA. He is also a counselor, a regular speaker at conferences, and the author of several books, including Reset and Exploring the Bible. David has taught Old Testament, counseling, and pastoral theology at various seminaries.
Read more from David Murray
The Beauty and Glory of Christ Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsReset: Living a Grace-Paced Life in a Burnout Culture Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Happy Christian: Ten Ways to Be a Joyful Believer in a Gloomy World Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Jesus on Every Page: 10 Simple Ways to Seek and Find Christ in the Old Testament Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Refresh: Embracing a Grace-Paced Life in a World of Endless Demands Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The StoryChanger (An Introduction): How God Rewrites Our Story by Inviting Us into His Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A Christian's Guide to Mental Illness: Answers to 30 Common Questions Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhy Is My Teenager Feeling Like This?: A Guide for Helping Teens through Anxiety and Depression Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Japan Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Beauty and Glory of the Holy Spirit Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Beauty and Glory of the Father Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Luke: Stories of Mission and Mercy Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Beauty and Glory of Christ's Bride Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Beauty and Glory of Christian Living Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Beauty and Glory of the Last Things Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace Shining through Law Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Beauty and Glory of God's Word Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Book of Isaiah Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsPhilippians and Colossians: Stories of Joy and Identity Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsProverbs: Stories of Wisdom and Folly Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTimothy and Titus: Stories of Fear and Courage Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsExodus: Stories of Redemption and Relationship Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMatter, Magic, and Spirit: Representing Indian and African American Belief Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsJapan Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Related to Christians Get Depressed Too
Related ebooks
Untangling Emotions Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Overcoming Apathy: Gospel Hope for Those Who Struggle to Care Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5God's Healing for Life's Losses: How to Find Hope When You’re Hurting Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCounseling Through Your Bible Handbook: Providing Biblical Hope and Practical Help for 50 Everyday Problems Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Depression, Anxiety, and the Christian Life: Practical Wisdom from Richard Baxter Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Pastor as Counselor (Foreword by Ed Welch): The Call for Soul Care Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5God's Grace in Your Suffering Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Side by Side: Walking with Others in Wisdom and Love Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How Should We Develop Biblical Friendship? Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5How Does Sanctification Work? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Caring for One Another: 8 Ways to Cultivate Meaningful Relationships Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Heart of Anger: How the Bible Transforms Anger in Our Understanding and Experience Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5When Pain Is Real and God Seems Silent: Finding Hope in the Psalms Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Getting Over Yourself: Trading Believe-in-Yourself Religion for Christ-Centered Christianity Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Company We Keep: In Search of Biblical Friendship Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Feelings and Faith: Cultivating Godly Emotions in the Christian Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Created to Draw Near: Our Life as God's Royal Priests Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Finding the Right Hills to Die On: The Case for Theological Triage Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Suffering and the Sovereignty of God Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Transformed: How God Renews Your Mind to Make You More Like Jesus Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHumbled: Welcoming the Uncomfortable Work of God Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy: Discovering the Grace of Lament Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Hole in Our Holiness: Filling the Gap between Gospel Passion and the Pursuit of Godliness Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5What Grieving People Wish You Knew about What Really Helps (and What Really Hurts) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Sick of Singleness: A Biblical Guide to Breaking Free and Finding Love Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStop Your Complaining Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMaking All Things New: Restoring Joy to the Sexually Broken Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Chasing Contentment: Trusting God in a Discontented Age Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Emotional Life of Our Lord Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Christianity For You
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Decluttering at the Speed of Life: Winning Your Never-Ending Battle with Stuff Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Screwtape Letters Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Four Loves Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mere Christianity Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Anxious for Nothing: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Less Fret, More Faith: An 11-Week Action Plan to Overcome Anxiety Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Story: The Bible as One Continuing Story of God and His People Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Wild at Heart Expanded Edition: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Law of Connection: Lesson 10 from The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Winning the War in Your Mind: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Bible Recap: A One-Year Guide to Reading and Understanding the Entire Bible Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5A Grief Observed Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries Workbook: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: It's Time to Win the Battle of Your Mind... Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Book of Enoch Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5NIV, Holy Bible Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Undistracted: Capture Your Purpose. Rediscover Your Joy. Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for Christians Get Depressed Too
19 ratings1 review
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Today’s Church has been beset with numerous challenges. Few have been so distressing as the problem of depression. Good people are weighed down with their own depression or perplexed about that of friends and family members. In some sectors of the Church, this is complicated by a stigma associated with depression. Sin ultimately causes depression, it is assumed. And the conclusion follows that good Christians don’t get depressed.To counter these notions about depression, David P. Murray has written an incredibly helpful book entitled, "Christians Get Depressed Too". Murray, Professor of Old Testament and Practical Theology at Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary, has encountered depression in ministry and personal contexts enough to be both well versed on the topic and sensitive to the need for sound resources. The book he has written is intentionally short: since “depressed people cannot read hundreds of pages.” (pg. xi). It serves as a resource for caregivers as well as a source of hope for the depressed who consciously decide they want to get better.Murray explains what depression is and what it signifies. He counters the approach which assumes as a default that behind most bouts of depression lie hidden sin problems. The picture is much more complex than that, he claims. He exposes the faulty thinking patterns which often contribute to depression, and finds examples of such thinking, and even the depression which results, in the lives of people in Scripture. In defense of the physiological nature of much of depression, Murray appeals to Puritans such as Richard Baxter.On the role of medicine, Murray finds two unhelpful extremes: too much dependence on medicine, and the aversion of any use of it at all. Along these lines, he says:"Treating a depressed person with medication is often no different from giving my eight-year-old daughter one of her many daily injections of insulin for diabetes. I am not merely alleviating symptoms, but addressing the cause–depleted insulin due to dying or dead cells in her pancreas. And if she is lethargic, weepy, or irrational due to low sugar levels, I do not ask her what commandments she has broken or what “issues of meaning and relationship” she has in her life. I pity her, weep for her, and thank God for His gracious provision of medicine for her." (pg. 64-65).This is not to say, Murray merely refers Christians suffering from depression to their local psychiatrist. Rather, he offers an abundance of help from the Scriptures on how to correct thinking patterns and learn to receive even depression as a gift from God’s very hand. He points to a little remembered passage where Scripture says, “God left” Hezekiah, “that he might know all that was in his heart” (2 Chron. 32:31). Murray elaborates:"This is not an objective leaving, but a subjective leaving. God withdrew Himself from Hezekiah’s spiritual feelings so that he lost his sense of God’s presence, protection, and favor… But God had a wise and loving purpose in this…. Sometimes… [God] may wisely, temporarily, and proportionately withdraw the sense of His favor and presence to remind us of our state without Him and to lead us to greater thankfulness and appreciation for Him. He may do this… by lovingly afflicting our brain, disrupting it’s chemistry and electricity, just as He does when He lovingly afflicts one of His dear children with epilepsy, or any other disease." (pg. 65).This small book of 120 or so small-sized pages, will prove an immense help to both caregivers and those suffering from depression. It is a primer on depression and in it, Murray offers a careful list of recommended resources, for those looking to continue their study of this topic. The book’s attractive cover, and handy, almost “pocket” size, make it an ideal book to giveaway to friends dealing with this issue. I’ve already loaned or given out copies of this inexpensive book, and plan on using this as a resource for years to come.
1 person found this helpful
Book preview
Christians Get Depressed Too - David Murray
tears.
1. THE CRISIS
There are many different kinds of mental and emotional suffering. The area I am particularly concerned with here is the most common—depression. As anxiety and panic attacks are also commonly associated with depression (so much so that doctors are increasingly using the term depression-anxiety when referring to depression), much of what I write will apply to these distressing conditions also.
But why should we study this subject at all? Here are eight reasons.
Because the Bible Speaks about It
There are numerous Bible verses that refer to the causes, consequences, and cures of depression and severe anxiety. The Bible does not address every cause and consequence. Nor does it point to every cure. But, as we shall see later, the Bible does have an important role to play in the treatment of Christians who are suffering from depression and anxiety.
The Bible never states that Bible Character X had mental illness,
or Bible Character Y was depressed.
However, it does frequently describe men and women who manifested many of the symptoms of depression and anxiety. In some cases it is not clear whether these symptoms reflect long-term mental illness or simply a temporary dip in the person’s mental and emotional health, which everyone goes through from time to time. For example, symptoms of depression-anxiety can be seen in Moses (Num. 11:14), Hannah (1 Sam. 1:7, 16), and Jeremiah (Jer. 20:14–18; Lam. 3:1–6). In these cases it is difficult to say whether the symptoms reflect a depression or a dip. Martin Lloyd-Jones argues from biblical evidence that Timothy suffered from near-paralyzing anxiety.¹ A more persuasive case for a depression diagnosis can be made for Elijah (1 Kings 19:1–18), Job (Job 6:2–3, 14; 7:11), and various psalmists (Ps. 42:1–3, 9; Ps. 88). Steve Bloem, a pastor who has passed through deep and dark depressions, writes:
The Psalms treat depression more realistically than many of today’s popular books on Christianity and psychology. David and other psalmists often found themselves deeply depressed for various reasons. They did not, however, apologize for what they were feeling, nor did they confess it as sin. It was a legitimate part of their relationship with God. They interacted with Him through the context of their depression.²
Another significant verse is, The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?
(Prov. 18:14). The human spirit can help people through all kinds of bodily sickness. However, as Steve Bloem points out, When the healing mechanism is what needs to be healed, that’s a serious problem.
³
Because It Is So Common
One in five people experiences depression, and one in ten experiences a panic attack at some stage in his life. An estimated 121 million people worldwide suffer from depression. Studies show that 5.8 percent of men and 9.5 percent of women will experience a depressive episode in any given year. Suicide, sometimes the end result of depression, is the leading cause of violent deaths worldwide, accounting for 49.1 percent of all violent deaths compared with 18.6 percent in war and 31.3 percent by homicide.⁴
It is also not uncommon among professing Christians. Indeed, these days there would appear to be an epidemic of depression, anxiety, and panic attacks among Christians—both young and old. This is partly because of the depressing state of the church and the nation. Frequently we hear discouraging news about church splits or problems and about Christians backsliding or falling into temptation. Then there is the secular and anti-Christian direction of many governments as they continue to dismantle the Judeo-Christian laws and standards that our civilization was built upon and as they attack and undermine family life. There is the relentless audio-visual misrepresentation and persecution of Christians through the print and broadcast media. To top it all, there seems to be an unceasing diet of bad news on the international stage with wars, terrorism, and natural disasters ever before us.
It is therefore little wonder that Christians react adversely and get depressed and anxious about themselves, their families, their church, and the world they live in.
Because It Impacts Our Spiritual Life
We are made up of body and soul. However, there is a third dimension that links or overlaps these two elements, which we can also view as our thoughts and feelings. When our body is sick, even with a common cold, often our spiritual life and our thinking and feeling processes are affected as well. When our spiritual life is in poor condition, our thoughts and feelings are affected, and sometimes our bodily health and functions also. It is, therefore, no surprise that when our mental and emotional health is poor and when our thinking and feeling processes go awry, there are detrimental physical and spiritual consequences. The depressed believer cannot concentrate to read or pray. As she doesn’t want to meet people, she may avoid church and fellowship. She often feels God has abandoned