Powerful Interactions: How to Connect with Children to Extend Their Learning, Second Edition

By Amy Laura Dombro, Judy Jablon and Charlotte Stetson

• Since its publication in 2011, the first edition of Powerful Interactions has been one of NAEYC’s top five bestselling books for nearly 10 years and has sold over 40,000 copies through all distribution channels.
• Today there is even greater awareness among early childhood educators of the importance of building relationships with young children to support their learning. With this revised edition of the book, both new and experienced educators can turn everyday interactions with children into Powerful Interactions and increase children's engagement, communication, motivation, and learning.

Special features:

• Updated research addressing the importance of social and emotional learning and how children’s interactions with adults impacts their development in every area
• Updated examples; includes extended vignettes with analysis of what the teacher did and why, and how the child responded or was impacted Greater attention to issues of equity and diversity, including among educators
• Several spaces for journaling and reflection, with prompts for the reader to consider her thoughts on a strategy she tried with a child, how it worked, and what the reader learned. These sections are also helpful for readers who are studying the book for a class or in a learning group with other teachers.

• Language: English
• Publisher: The National Association for the Education of Young Children
• Release date: Nov 3, 2020
• ISBN: 9781938113734

Amy Laura Dombro

Amy Laura Dombro, MS, creates resources for teachers, family support professionals, and community leaders. Former head of the Bank Street Infant and Family Center, Amy works with and for national organizations to translate complex information so that it is engaging and easy to use. In addition, she often documents stories of successes, challenges, and lessons learned so that readers can benefit from the experiences of others. Her publications include The Power of Observation, Smart Start in Action and Honoring Our Babies and Toddlers, a guide for caring professionals working with military families.

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Powerful Interactions®

How to Connect with Children to Extend Their Learning

SECOND EDITION

Amy Laura Dombro, Judy Jablon, & Charlotte Stetson

National Association for the Education of Young Children

Washington, DC

Washington, DC

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Powerful Interactions®: How to Connect with Children to Extend Their Learning, Second Edition. Copyright © 2020 by the National Association for the Education of Young Children. All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America.

Library of Congress Control Number: 2020934207

ISBN: 9781938113734

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Contents

Welcome

The Power of Teacher–Child Interactions

About this Book

A First Look at Powerful Interactions

What Is a Powerful Interaction?

How Do You Turn an Everyday Interaction into a Powerful Interaction?

What’s in It for You?

Step One: Be Present

What Does It Mean to Be Present?

Doing a Quick Me Check

Getting Better at Being Present

Reflect on Your Practice

Step Two: Connect

What Does It Mean to Connect?

Seven Strategies for Connecting

Slow Down, Stay in the Moment

Keep Learning About Children

Listen to Children

Personalize Your Interactions

Show Respect

Guide Children’s Behavior

Keep Trust Growing

Step Three: Extend Learning

What Does It Mean to Extend Learning?

Examples of Extending Learning

Ten Strategies for Extending Learning

Help Children See Themselves as Thinkers

Respond to Curiosity

Use Mirror Talk

Have Conversations

Inspire Imaginative Play

Solve Problems Together

Use Rich Vocabulary

Laugh with Children

Ask Questions

Link the New to the Familiar

You Make the Difference!

Energy—Keep Your Cup Filled

Confidence—Watch Yourself in Slow Motion

One Last Word

Conversation Guide

References

Index

Acknowledgments

About the Authors

Welcome

Welcome to a continuing conversation about the power of the interactions you have with children every day.

You may work with young children in a center or your home, in an Early Head Start or Head Start program, in a preschool or an early elementary classroom, in a civilian or military setting, or you may be a home visitor. Each child you work with is a unique blend of experiences, language, culture, and abilities. Regardless of where you work, this book is for you because you make a difference!

You make a difference through the decisions you make about how you perceive and interact with children. These decisions have an impact on children, on their development and learning, today and for the future (NAEYC 2019).

While writing this new edition of our book, it has been exciting to reflect on the last 10 years of listening and learning with you about interactions. Together, we have affirmed that the Powerful Interactions® framework, as presented in the first edition, has allowed us to talk and think collaboratively about something as complex as interactions. What we learned from listening to and learning with you has deepened and enriched the content of this new book, which in turn has made listening and learning easier to do.

This new edition includes updated content and research that continues to affirm the vital importance of adult–child interactions. We have included some new stories, photos, and insights from you about each of the three steps of Powerful Interactions. In response to many requests, we have also added a conversation guide to support you and your colleagues who work in a variety of settings.

The Power of Teacher–Child Interactions

It was Russian psychologist Lev Vygotsky (1896–1934) who first explained the vital connection between interactions and learning. He explained that as young children act and interact in shared experiences with others, those social interactions play a key role in how children learn to think, reason, and communicate. For this reason, too, the range of knowledge and skills that a child can develop interacting with an adult or peer is greater than the child can gain alone (Tayler 2015; Vygotsky 1978).

A report from the Center on the Developing Child (2016) at Harvard University supports Vygotsky’s theory, saying,

Children develop within an environment of relationships that begins in the family but also involves other adults who play important roles in their lives. This can include extended family members, providers of early care and education, nurses, social workers, coaches, and neighbors. These relationships affect virtually all aspects of development—intellectual, social, emotional, physical, and behavioral—and their quality and stability in the early years lay the foundation that supports a wide range of later outcomes. (8)

Whether your interactions are spontaneous or planned, thoughtful or automatic, individualized or one-size-fits-all, the kind of interactions you have with children matters. The topic of teacher–child interactions has been very much in the forefront of early childhood for years. As you’ll see throughout this book, there is extensive research to support the importance of enhancing the quality of interactions with children.

About this Book

Because your interactions make such a difference to children’s development and learning, we hope this book will help you take a breath, a step back, and a careful look at how you interact with children. Interactions are an essential part of your relationship with children. Programs promote positive relationships between all children and adults to encourage each child’s sense of individual worth and belonging as part of a community and to foster each child’s ability to contribute as a responsible community member (NAEYC 2018, 7).

For more than 30 years, we have talked and taught with other early childhood educators in various settings. Hearing from them about the challenges of getting to know each child as an individual led to the publication of The Power of Observation (1999/2007), which Judy and Amy wrote with our colleague and friend Margo Dichtelmiller. To help teachers make more meaningful connections between their observations and their teaching, Charlotte, Judy, and Amy wrote Observation: The Key to Responsive Teaching (2007).

The first edition of Powerful Interactions: How to Connect with Children to Extend Their Learning (2011) took the next step, which is now carried further in this new edition. Grounded in the reality of teachers’ everyday lives and the research on effective teaching and child development, this book shows you how to take what you know about children from observing them (and talking with their families and understanding their cultures and communities) and use it to create an optimal opportunity for you to teach and the child to learn. That opportunity is what we call a Powerful Interaction.

We promise that transforming some of your everyday interactions into Powerful Interactions will deliver wonderful benefits for children—and for you. Children will become more engaged in exploring, thinking, and communicating. With this engagement will come greater motivation, which leads to greater learning. In turn, you will become more intentional and effective. You will feel (and be) more successful as a teacher! We believe that with these feelings of success, you’ll gain the professional satisfaction of knowing the vital role you’re playing in children’s new accomplishments and growing sense of competence.

We have written and designed this book to become part of your daily practice. We hope you’ll find something on every page each day to inspire you and make you smile as you learn new strategies for your work with children. Throughout the book, we have included writing space where you can reflect on the new ideas and record your insights. Perhaps you’ll join with other teachers in reading the book together, beginning a broader conversation about enhancing your teaching practice.

To deepen the practices of Powerful Interactions in your setting, Judy and Amy, along with Shaun Johnsen, also wrote Coaching with Powerful Interactions (2016). This book supports coaches and directors to have Powerful Interactions with teachers that are parallel to the Powerful Interactions teachers have with children.

While both of these books will affirm what you already know and do well, we also invite you to learn some new ideas and skills, experiment with them, and share them with others. We’re confident that in the process, you’ll turn some of your everyday interactions into Powerful Interactions.

Amy, Judy, and Charlotte

September 2020

A First Look at Powerful Interactions

Interactions are the exchanges in words and gestures that you have with others—in particular, the exchanges that you as a teacher have with young children.

Each day and throughout the day, you have dozens of interactions with children, in groups and one-on-one. There are times when you make comments, ask questions, provide information, or give instructions. At other times, you might acknowledge a child’s effort, make requests, or correct something a child says. You may give hugs or pats on the back. You likely smile, frown, point, or wave. You interact when you greet children in the morning or say good-bye at the end of the day, during whole group experiences and small group activities, and as children work and play, both inside and outdoors. Even during transitions and daily routines you are interacting with children.

A growing body of professional knowledge underscores the complex and critical ways in which early childhood educators promote early learning through their relationships—with children, families, and colleagues (NAEYC 2019, 3). Research affirms that when you use your interactions intentionally to engage children, it makes a difference in what they learn about themselves, others, and the world (Hamre et al. 2014). This means that every one of your interactions holds the potential to make a positive impact on how children feel about themselves and about learning, as well as on what and how they learn.

Let’s look at a few examples of the kinds of interactions that have a positive impact on children. Do you see yourself in any of these examples?

❯  Wilma greets Lilah and her grandfather in the morning, and with a smile on her face says, Good morning, Lilah. We’ve been waiting for you. Come help Yael and me open this pomegranate so we can all see how it looks inside. From her teacher, Lilah gets the message that she is an important and special person. She also hears the name of a new fruit that is fun to say.

❯  Robert asks 6-month-old Baili, Are you ready for me to pick you up so we can change that wet diaper? He waits for her to look at him and hold out her arms before reaching down. From this conversation, Baili learns about the give-and-take of communicating with another person. She also learns she can get her I’m ready now message across and that Robert listens to her.

❯  Because 3-year-old Ryo’s home language is Japanese, Ms. Jackson greets him in Japanese (ohayō). Later that day, Ms. Jackson sits beside Ryo on the couch in her family child care home. He is beginning to learn a few words in English, so she carefully listens to what he tells her about his picture of the fire engine, and she writes his words along the bottom edge of his drawing. From Ms. Jackson, Ryo is learning that his home language is respected, that the words he says can be written down, and that his ideas are valuable enough to be recorded.

❯  Ms. Nahid joins 5-year-old Christopher at the easel. After watching for a few minutes as he adds some details, she moves closer to share in his delight about the shaggy dog he added to his painting. From this interaction, Christopher is experiencing his teacher’s shared interest and joy in his work.

Unfortunately, not all interactions children have with their teachers are so productive or positive. Some interactions send unintended messages that undermine children’s confidence, take away the joy of exploration, and interfere with learning. Do you see yourself in any of these examples?

❯  When 2-year-old Fiona continually hears from her teacher Don’t run, No touching, and Shhh, she gets the message that her excitement, curiosity, and language are not welcome.

❯  Running late, Mr. Bandile dismisses 5-year-old Carla’s question about bugs with a brusque, Give me a minute! From their quick exchange, Carla may feel disrespected and that her interests are not valued. She may become hesitant to ask questions. Later during choice time, she sits quietly beside Damon at the computer rather than choosing her favorite area, the science center.

❯  Each day as 4-year-old Johannah waits for her turn to use the bathroom, her teacher tells her, Just stand there in line quietly. Johannah is learning that school is boring and that one way to make it more interesting is to fool around or start a fight.

❯  Ms. Lourdes sits beside 3-year-old Fareed, who has just made a pattern using large blue bears and small orange bears. Ms. Lourdes says, What colors are the bears in your pattern? Fareed, who knows all his colors, responds blue and red with a smile and a sparkle in his eyes. As Ms. Lourdes quizzes him in several different ways to get him to say orange, Fareed’s delight with his pattern fades, his smile disappears, and finally he pushes his chair away from the table.

Positive or negative, the quality and intentionality of your interactions with children matter. This is where Powerful Interactions come into play.

What Is a Powerful Interaction?

Teachers and children interact with each other all day long. Let’s call these everyday interactions. In the typical classroom, most everyday interactions are perfectly fine—warm, caring, and encouraging (NAEYC 2018). Sometimes they happen spontaneously, sometimes in a rush, often with little thought about a purpose. Children may or may not learn from them. Sometimes children learn what the teacher intends to teach, but other times they learn unintended lessons.

When we as teachers can’t form secure and trusting bonds with the children in our classrooms or programs, the result may be a significant negative impact on those children’s development, especially the ability to form healthy relationships. Most importantly, our influence during early childhood can impact children’s trajectories going forward, academically and in life. All of this emanates from the quality of our relationships. (Edge 2019, 15)

Not every interaction a teacher has with children can be—or even needs to be—an interaction that promotes their learning. But we might expect that many would have learning as the goal. Research finds that interactions in which teachers intentionally promote learning are few and far between (Pianta 2010; Pianta, Downer, &