How to Make Great Decisions
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A simple gem.
Lovely to read.
Thank you Father Mike - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I learned a lot from this book. It is easy to understand and it is enjoyable to read. =)
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Great wisdom poured into 50 pages. This will help better understand how to make God-centered decisions, from the most important to the most mundane.
I can hear Fr. Mike in many of the passages, which makes sense since this book grew out of a talk he gave.
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How to Make Great Decisions - Fr. Mike Schmitz
ANSWERS
ONE:
THE CURE FOR EXPRESSIVE INDIVIDUALISM
WHEN IT COMES to any type of discernment, it’s really important to understand what is it that we’re discerning. For instance, we could look at our lives and say, Okay, I want to have this
or I want to have that.
Whether it’s my career, my relationships, or my finances, we tend to approach everything centered around ourselves. We say, I’m going to discern what God wants for my life.
Now, that word my is a really interesting word. It implies some sense of ownership. But in a deeper Christian sense, even my life is not really mine. St. Paul says this: You are not your own; you were bought with a price
(1 Corinthians 6:19–20). Even before you are a Christian, you have to say that your life is not, strictly speaking, your life in the same way, for instance, that some material object is yours. C. S. Lewis used the example of a teddy bear. In The Screwtape Letters he says when we talk about our teddy bear, we refer to something we could tear apart if we wanted to—because it belongs to us; it’s ours. And that’s how we refer to our lives—our home, our mom, our God, our life. We talk about our life or our God in the same way we talk about inanimate objects. It’s my life,
we say. Therefore, we could do whatever we wanted with it. We could make a shipwreck of it if we chose to.
Or we think the goal of our life is to maximize our happiness—to find self-fulfillment or self-expression. In fact, a lot of times when we say we’re discerning what to do with our life, we’re really trying to figure out what will make us the happiest. What kind of relationship will make me the happiest? What kind of career will make me happiest? And when we approach it like that, we find ourselves in a bind, because all of a sudden, it’s no longer about anyone other than me; it’s all about me.
If we approach discernment with self-expression or self-fulfillment as our goal, we’re looking at it the wrong way, and not only because it isn’t my life.
Stop and think of all the options you have in your life right now. Barry Schwartz, a sociologist, did a study on what he called the paradox of choice.
He starts by saying, Having choices is really, really good.
It’s great to have a lot of options out there, right? You go to the grocery store, and you don’t just have spaghetti sauce. You have eighty-three different kinds of spaghetti sauce. You don’t just have some salad dressing; you have 132 kinds of salad dressing for every possible taste you could possibly want.
Or what about going to the store to buy a pair of jeans? Those of you who have been living for a while know that back in the day, if you went shopping for jeans, you would go to the store, and they would have brands like Wrangler and Levis, or maybe even Jordache. Basically you’d have a few options that worked with your waist size and your inseam, you’d pick the one that fit the best, and you’d be on your way. But today there