My Dad Was so Mean: A Memoir of One of the World's Oldest Baby Boomers
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My Dad Was So Mean is the true story of one girl's experiences growing up with five feisty brothers (four older) in Buffalo, New York, during the early 1950's. Curious, adventurous kids, they drive their father nearly crazy, until the day the girl makes a momentous, family-changing discovery.
Elizabeth Streb Parks
The neighborhood in Ohio had a great celebration when World War II came to an end on V-J Day in early September, 1945. But a few weeks later, the neighborhood had another impromptu celebration when my mom, who had previously given birth to four boys in eight years, finally gave birth to her first girl, me. A little over a year later, she did it again: had another boy. To say the male influence in my life has been tremendous is an understatement. Outnumbered but not outsmarted, all I wanted was a second bathroom! A Charles Dickens' novel describes my life: "It was the best of times, it was the worst of times...." Living a block away from the main library made my natural quest for knowledge a reality of great expectations. Grinding poverty could have made for a bleak house, but the love of our family helped overcome much adversity. Through a series of serendipitous experiences, I came to the realization that there is a Divine Being, with a sense of humor, guiding my life. Born in Ohio, but living in various states, such as New York, Arizona, California, Florida, and Hawaii, I have an appreciation for the beauty and diversity of the landscape and the people of North America. As an older "Baby Boomer" with a husband who's been my mate for nearly 40 years and 2 grown children, a girl and a boy, it's been quite an adventure. But my daughter giving birth to my one and only grandchild, a boy named Kevie Keanu, added a new color to the rainbow of my life. I write, so that he will know what came before....my experience is a treasure and my gift to him and his generation.
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My Dad Was so Mean - Elizabeth Streb Parks
CHAPTER ONE
It should be against the law. In fact, it probably was. But my dad did it anyway: he picked me up and hung me over the rail at Niagara Falls. And everybody laughed, except me and my mom, Ann. She said, Verne, stop that! You’re scaring her!
Since it was a hot day, I didn’t mind the cooling mist gently caressing my body, as I glanced over my shoulder and looked down upon the massive, roaring waterfalls. All five of my brothers laughed and said, Drop her, Dad!
or Give her a shower!
In the meantime, I just sort of swung in the wind, hanging on and looking up into my dad’s laughing brown eyes. Then he pulled me up and over, and I never cried, but just ran to my mom for a comforting hug and a shared knowledge: males bond by scaring females.
When we first arrived in Buffalo, New York, it was December. As our train pulled into the station, I was anxious to get off and go play in the snow, that I had been watching from the fast moving train windows for at least an hour. It was a heavy blizzard, and normal for Buffalo, but not for our family.
After the train came to a complete stop, my father took me by the hand and led me to the door of the passenger compartment. Then he picked me up and stepped down to the swept pavement below. He walked over to where all the snow had fallen and placed me into the midst of it. The snow was up to my chest!
As my five brothers all piled off the train and saw my dad using me to measure how deep the snow was, they all started laughing hysterically. It must have looked pretty funny, seeing the shoulders and head of this little red-haired, blue-eyed girl sticking out of the snow. But when my mom came down the steps and saw me, she said, Now Verne! Get her out of that snow! She’s going to get pneumonia!
Since the snow was so deep and still falling, there was no way we could drive out to our new home, so we were stuck spending the night at a hotel near the railroad station, a great adventure to six kids traveling for the first time. There was only one problem: the whole family had to stay in one room, with one double bed and two chairs! Talk about a close family!
Not only was the room sparingly furnished, but the decor could be described as boring basic beige. The heavy drapes were beige, the ceiling was beige, and the wallpaper was a beige pattern, with tiny pink roses climbing the wall. However, we were not there for decorating tips, but for sleep.
My mom always remembered it as the worst night of her life. After several hours of trying to corral all my brothers on the train, she then had to spend her first night in New York sitting upright in an uncomfortable chair. My dad had no trouble sleeping in the other matching chair, and his loud snores soon reverberated throughout the strange room. All six of us kids were lined up like sardines in the bed, lying parallel to the headboard and footboard, tightly packed and ready for sleep. I take that back... five kids were ready for sleep, since the excitement of the big trip had exhausted them, and they sensed the urgent need to recharge their batteries for the coming day. But one kid had already recharged his batteries on the train with a long nap, and he was rarin’ to go.
So as Ralph, Billy, David, Bobby and I, Betty Jean, tried to rest our weary bones, brother Donny had other ideas. He climbed on top of the footboard and posed like a world-class diver. Then he leaped into the air and landed on top of a bunch of flailing bodies, as hollers and yelps filled the air. Donny laughed with pure joy at his newly discovered activity, until my mom sternly said, Donny! Stop that immediately and go to sleep!
So Donny crept over our bodies back to his place at the foot of the bed and quietly rested for a few minutes. Then, just as we were all settling into the snooze state... KABOOM! He did it again! And this time our cries woke the sleeping giant: Dad.
What’s going on?!
he bellowed.
All six of us were explaining and complaining at the same time, so that a clear response turned into mass confusion. Finally, Dad yelled, Enough! Now everybody get to sleep! And I mean NOW!
Immediately, the tense atmosphere went silent, for a few moments, at least. To this day, I don’t know who started it, who broke the silence. But one of us started to giggle, and giggling being contagious, within a few minutes, we were out of control with laughter.
Again, Dad yelled, Quiet!
An attempt was made to be quiet and serious, but it was too late. We tried not to make a sound. Honest, we did! But there’s one thing worse than giggling and that’s trying not to giggle. So there we were, six bodies lined up like slats on a picket fence, trying to control something uncontrollable: contagious laughter. Our bodies shook silently, our eyes teared, and snorts escaped our noses. When we could stand it no longer, we burst into laughter and Donny took one more leap. This time we all grabbed him and had an impromptu wrestling session, peals of laughter rising from the bed. Even Mom and Dad were laughing heartily. And that’s how we spent our first night in New York.
CHAPTER TWO
As we settled into normal life in Buffalo, or rather a rural area about ten miles to the west, my brothers were in boy heaven. After being raised their entire lives in an apartment in a city in Ohio, they now had a big, old farmhouse and hundreds of acres to roam. There were two large barns, an orchard,