Change Your Thinking Pattern and Attitude

By Brian Azarenka

It has been repeatedly stated that life is difficult and that people change over time throughout the course of their life. Unfortunately, that change is usually not one that is beneficial to the person. Rather, it is a negative change that slowly erodes a person’s mental state. Soon enough, they become sick and tired of themselves and desire a positive change. Of course, the best way to change a person’s outlook on life is to change their attitude.

Normally, change requires time and perseverance. Without the motivation and desire to change, you cannot hope to change. That is why this book will act as your guide, helping you change your outlook and attitude in life. Soon, you’ll be able to leave those negative aspects of yours behind and move on to a more positive future. Of course, in order for you to be able to see the results of your efforts, you must first believe that you can obtain the results that you desire.

This book will simply be a guide for you to understand what you can do to change yourself. However, at the end of the book, the decision will rest on you because the first step towards change is your decision.

• Language: English
• Publisher: XinXii
• Release date: Dec 17, 2013
• ISBN: 9781456613174

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Introduction

It’s expected that one of the hardest aspects of life is having the ability to persevere.

Words can only state what you can or will do, but actions make those words a reality.

Now, before you start, you have to know that this book is written to help you shape up your old habits. This is not a book that will compliment every aspect of your personality.

This book will help you only if you will allow it to help you. That means, in order for you to see results, you have to be willing to strive for results.

The whole point of you reading this book is for you to be able to change your attitude afterwards was it not?

You’re sick and tired of having to deal with your old habits. You don’t want to look at others and envy them for what you lack.

You want to develop a new and better habit for you to live with everyday. That is what this book will help you do.

It will help you change your outlook and attitude in life. Your old negative feelings will be gone, replaced by the new and positive attitude that you have gained.

Yet, you won’t be able to reach your goal without effort. It’s going to require a lot of effort in the beginning. However, the more you believe, the more you’ll achieve. Keep up the good work and keep going no matter what.

You have to remember, changes are permanent only if you continue those changes. It can be very easy and tempting at times to change back to your old self.

The reason why it can be difficult for you to change yourself is because you are too comfortable.

People enjoy their comfort zone. They do not like the idea of it being popped, broken, shattered, trespassed, or whichever term people tend to phrase it as.

The point is, once their comfort zone is broken, there’s a very high chance of them moving back into the zone after a certain period of time.

It’s like forming a new habit. Normally, it’ll take at least three weeks for a new habit to form, that’s if you continued the same routine for that long.

Likewise, forming a new habit is the same as breaking away from your comfort zone because in order to change something, you must first rid yourself of what you’ve had before.

It’s good to put yourself on the spot sometimes when you are trying to change yourself up. The more you look at what you haven’t done and what you could’ve done, the easier it will be for you to strive for the change that you want.

Although motivation is key to absolute success, motivation only lasts outside of the comfort zone. If you continue to stop letting yourself be too comfortable where you’re at, you’re doing something right.

Granted, chances won’t appear in a few days. It’s going to take weeks, or maybe even months. Either way, the more you keep going, the closer