Candy and Me: A Love Story
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As Liftin recounts her record-setting candy consumption, loves and friendships unfold in a funny and heartbreaking series of bittersweet revelations and restorative meditations. Hilary survives a profound obsession with jelly beans and a camp counselor, a forgettable fling with Skittles at a dot-com, and a messy breakup healed by a friendship forged over Circus Peanuts. Through thick and thin, sweet and sour, Hilary confronts the challenges of conversation hearts and the vagaries of boyfriends, searching for that perfect balance of love and sugar.
Written with a fresh dry humor that will immediately absorb you into Liftin's sweet obsessions and remind you of your own, Candy and Me unwraps the meaning found in the universal desire for connection and confection. Treat yourself to Candy and Me -- being bad never read so good.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/53.5*** Subtitle: A Love StoryPaperback subtitle: A Girl’s Tale of Life, Love and SugarHilary Liftin has had a lifelong addiction to candy. I can relate. I consumed quite a lot of sugary treats as a child. One of my uncles (my mother’s brother) was a pastry chef and had his own bakery. Another uncle (my father’s brother), had a grocery store; I was so jealous of my cousins because I believed they could have all the candy they wanted for free. (I was wrong about that, of course.) As she recalls her childhood, adolescence, and young adulthood, she reflects on the many candies she consumed, adored, sought, hoarded and absolutely without guilt enjoyed. Some of these I had never heard of (Bottle caps?), others were also among my favorites, (Junior Mints, Orange Slices and Circus Peanuts), and still others we will have to agree to disagree on (I love Starlight mints, she can’t abide them; she loves candy corn, I’d sooner kiss a sheep.) We have, both of us, learned to live with a sweet tooth, and moderate our consumption. But it was sure nice to take a walk down memory lane, when penny candy was plentiful and I had a whole DIME to spend on it!
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A life story punctuated by candy, or a candy story punctuated by life events--is there any difference between them? Liftin records every texture, every sensation, every experience in great detail, sharing her love for (or addiction to) any form of sugary sweet. From eating cups of powdered sugar with a spoon at seven years old to a marriage proposal in a package of Bottlecaps, candy has always been a part of Liftin's life--and she's willing to share it with you.
Very brief personal essays centered on candy. Nothing that's research-based (in fact, she talks about the terrible name of the Reese's FastBreak, but is apparently unaware of its much-improved Canadian identity, the Sidekick), but a very quick and engaging read all the same. Adding this to the 12th-grade booktalk list, because what's more exciting than candy? - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I love candy and I love this book. Hilary Liftin writes unabashedly about her rabid sweet tooth and her love for all things sugar coated. She effectively uses her changing tastes for and relationship with various candies as a lens through which to examine her life. Liftin is so honest and so entertainingly self-effacing that you can't help but like her. This book will make you nostalgic for candy you haven't had since you were a child and grateful for the sweetness that already exists in your life.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Candy and Me is a delightful romp into the life of Hilary Liftin. She lives her live through different candy experiences. I liked this book, but I only gave it the rating I did was because her life wasn't that exciting.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Made me want to eat candy :P
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Candy and Me - Hilary Liftin
Also by Hilary Liftin
Dear Exile: The True Story of Two Friends
Separated (for a Year) by an Ocean
(with Kate Montgomery)
FREE PRESS
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Copyright © 2003 by Hilary Liftin
All rights reserved, including the right of reproduction in whole or in part in any form.
FREE PRESS and colophon are trademarks of Simon & Schuster, Inc.
Book design by Ellen R. Sasahara
Illustrations copyright © 2003 by Patrick Barth
Excerpt from The Emperor of Ice-Cream
from The Collected Poems of Wallace Stevens by Wallace Stevens, copyright © 1954 by Wallace Stevens and renewed 1982 by Holly Stevens. Used by permission of Alfred A. Knopf. Certain candy product names mentioned in this book are trademarks of their respective owners. Simon & Schuster is not affiliated with these owners.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Liftin, Hilary.
Candy and me: a love story / Hilary Liftin.
p. cm.
1. Liftin, Hilary––Biography. 2. Candy. I. Title.
TX783..L53 2003
641.3—dc21 2002192871
ISBN-10: 0-7432-4953-4
ISBN-13: 978-0-7432-4953-9
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For Chris, my everything
Call the roller of big cigars,
The muscular one, and bid him whip
In kitchen cups concupiscent curds.
Let the wenches dawdle in such dress
As they are used to wear, and let the boys
Bring flowers in last month’s newspapers.
Let be be finale of seem.
The only emperor is the emperor of ice-cream.
From The Emperor of Ice-Cream
by Wallace Stevens
Contents
Introduction Bubble Burgers
Part One Sweet Tooth
Sugar
Trix
Candy Corn
Cocoa
Ice Cream
Flake
The Assortment
Conversation Hearts
Spree
Bottle Caps Nostalgia
Tessana’s Butterfly Cake
Mints
Nonpareils
Skor
Jelly Belly Jellybeans
I Know What You’re Thinking…
Fruit Slices
Fudge
Snickers
Junior Mints
Part Two Sugar and Spice
Smarties
Swiss Petite Fruit
Conversation Hearts, the Reclamation
Lipo
Frosting
The Assortment, Revisited
White Chocolate Breakup
Devil’s Candy
Fruit
Lemonheads
Fireballs
Feeding the Habit
Bull’s-Eyes
Old-Fashioned Marshmallow Eggs
Skittles
Circus Peanuts
Mini Bottle Caps, Try Again
Swiss Chocolate Ice Cream
Sugar-Free
A Heart-Shaped Box of Chocolates
Part Three Just Desserts
Taffy
Bottle Caps Regained
Twizzlers
Icing Off the Cake
Necco Wafers
Cotton Candy
This Woman Needs Help
No, Thank You
Starburst
The Truth about Circus Peanuts
Peanut Butter Cups
Tootsie Rolls
Name Your Candy
Old-Fashioned Marshmallow Eggs: Drawing the Line
With This Bottle Cap…
Meltaways
Epilogue: Candy West
Resources
Acknowledgments
halftitleIntroduction
Bubble Burgers
1It all began when my brother entered the fourth grade. His new school let out too late for our carpool to the suburbs, so he had to take the city bus. One day he came home carrying a Bubble Burger. The Bubble Burger was a pioneer in the less-than-inspiring category of bubble gum shaped like real-world objects. I was still in the third grade, and I looked at Eric’s Bubble Burger with wonder.
Where did you get it?
In a little store called Alban Towers,
he said nonchalantly, as if we’d had the freedom to buy whatever candy we wanted every day of our lives.
How much did it cost?
A quarter,
he said with his mouth stuffed.
Will you get me one?
Sure.
The next day Eric brought me my first Bubble Burger. I chewed it, probably swallowed it (I always found the concept of gum frustrating), and plopped six allowance quarters down on his rug.
You want six?
Yes,
I said. Eric shrugged. It wasn’t a total surprise. I had been stealing his Halloween candy for years.
I continued to supply Eric with money for Bubble Burgers until a thought occurred to me.
At Alban Towers,
I asked him, do they have other kinds of candy?
He rolled his eyes. Of course they do.
Like what?
I asked.
Everything,
he said. I had no idea what everything was. I racked my brain to remember the kinds of candy I had seen at the grocery store. Finally, I dumped eight quarters on the rug.
Just get me anything.
Candy is almost pure sugar. It is empty of nutritional value. It is an extravagance. It dissolves in water. It melts in your mouth, not in your hands. It’s the icing on the cake. Candy is so impossibly sweet and good that eating it should be the simplest thing in the world. So how can there be anything of substance to say about it?
And yet, candy’s meaning has more subtlety than its taste. It affords a fleeting spike of pleasure, sometimes guilty or elusive or bittersweet, like an impossible love affair. I’ve thought myself addicted and tried to quit. I’ve embraced my candy-lover identity and championed the cause. I’ve eaten it for joy, to relax, to celebrate, and out of boredom. I’ve eaten it through thick and thin and not-fat-but-not-thin. I love it, I hate it, and it’s always been there, through childhood, adolescence, and into my adult life. Candy, and its erratic, delightful, fattening, odd rainbow presence, is an obsession that has fueled and flavored my life. When I walk into a candy store, the shelf of assorted treats evokes a series of individually wrapped memories, ready for the tasting.
As I look back on my candy life, what has been most thrilling was to discover I haven’t been alone. Sure, there are people I’ve encountered who shrug off candy and go back to eating their pretzels. Others think that I’m a bit sick. But far more often, the mention of candy triggers long, enthusiastic exchanges about top candies, addictions and repulsions, flavors and habits. On occasion, with more people than I could have imagined, conversation turns to the emotional resonance that grows from a lifetime of candy eating.
Candy is important, and it’s about time it got its just desserts.
Part One
Sweet Tooth
Sugar
7Before there was candy, there was sugar. My brother and I started staying without a babysitter when I was seven and he was eight. We had a barter/bribe relationship: for every serving of sugar I ate, Eric could stay up an extra hour. We pledged not to tell on each other to our parents. As soon as they walked out the door, I would pour several tablespoons of confectioner’s powdered sugar into a Dixie cup. I eventually figured out that if I ran a few drops of water or milk into the cup and mixed it up, semi-soft pellets formed. The texture of these pellets was dreamy. Sometimes I would add a drop of vanilla extract and a bit of butter. Then, in front of the (also forbidden) TV, I would dip a spoon into the sugar and feed myself.
Our suburban Maryland family room had a pale brick fireplace, wall-to-wall shag carpeting, and psychedelic pillows. Eric reclined on the couch and I sat on the velour lounge chair. We watched the Osmonds, Rhoda, The Wonderful World of Disney. On any night that I started eating sugar, which was every night my parents didn’t hire a babysitter, I would have refill after refill. I ate it furtively, afraid that my parents would walk in unexpectedly. I loved the way the sugar became sweeter just before it dissolved on my tongue. Watching illicit TV while eating sugar became a habit. The combined relaxation, indulgence, and jolt of forbidden sweetness that I found in my candy-leisure moments were forever established as sensations to pursue. If Charles Schulz had created a comic-strip version of me at seven, I would have been surrounded by a cloud, but unlike Pigpen’s dirty cumulus, my cloud would have been a pure, refined puff of powdered sugar.
At some point Eric stopped calculating the late night hours he was accumulating and threw up his hands.
I can’t believe you’re eating all that sugar,
he said. You’ll be sick.
But I didn’t feel sick. Rather, I was astounded that Eric had no apparent interest in the bounty I had discovered. I don’t remember ever getting caught or in trouble, although I know my mother must have had some idea that this was going on. I also never wondered why there was always powdered sugar in the house—even though my mother never baked. It was only later that I discovered that she herself had a secret habit. But eventually she decided not to stock sugar in the pantry anymore, and I had to move on.
Trix
9In 1954, Trix breakfast cereal was introduced by General Mills. The new cereal, a huge hit with kids, was 46.6 percent sugar.
—UselessKnowledge.com
I loved Trix.
Candy Corn
10The earliest candy corn memory I have is of my mother carefully spreading several bags of the product across the kitchen table. She was teaching herself to be a painter and was arranging a candy corn still life. Eric and I were instructed not to touch or eat a single kernel. Our mother acted as if this were a perfectly reasonable request, as if she were painting a still life of spinach, or pork lard. One comes into the kitchen, one is young, one is hungry, and one sees a table covered with one’s favorite candy. She couldn’t have painted a fruit basket? It was a cruel world, mismanaged by adults who knew their own power too well.
Candy corn may seem timeless, but it was born at the Wunderle Candy company in the 1880s. That whole school of candy—mellocremes—was already in full swing, in various agriculturally inspired shapes and sizes. Then in 1898 Goelitz Confectionery Company took candy corn into the big leagues, associating the confection with Halloween. It was, needless to say, a big hit. And why shouldn’t it have been? Candy corn was made for stardom. Those shiny, waxy yellow ends demand to be clutched by the handful and eaten, top, middle, bottom, top, middle, bottom, in a compulsive rhythm until they are gone. Chocolate gets all the fanzines, but it is the clay of candy. Matte, endlessly shapeable, chocolate is all about taste. Candy corn gets by on looks alone. Odes should be written to its waxy gleam, its whimsical design, its autumnal shades.
11 I fell for candy corn hard. It was the first candy for which I had a specific desire rather than a generic sugarlust. I loved how it returned, Halloween after Halloween. We trick-or-treated on the overly lit cul-de-sacs of suburban Maryland, compromising our store-bought costumes by donning coats. We ran from house to house, suffocating plastic masks pulled up onto the tops of our heads. One popular house distributed full-size Three Musketeers bars. Candy corn came in slender, oblong boxes or little plastic bags cherishing only four or five kernels. At the end of the night our brown paper bags were awkwardly heavy. It was never enough. I usually ate all of my candy by the next evening, and then started in on my brother’s. When I got tired of the sugary candies in our bags, I switched to chocolate, then back again.
Candy corn marked the passage of time. Every year autumn brought a Pavlovian desire for it. I counted the years by Halloweens rather than birthdays, and the taste of candy corn meant a new costume, a new year of school. All summer I looked forward to October 31. I thought that it was