Susan Crain Bakos is the author of What Men Really Want, Kink, Sexational Secrets,Still Sexy, and many other books. She is also a contributor to Penthouse, Redbook, and Cosmopolitan.Susan Crain Bakos is the author of What Men Really Want, Kink, Sexational Secrets,Still Sexy, and many other books. She is also a contributor to Penthouse, Redbook, and Cosmopolitan.