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Alice Claudia Oehninger
An intimate and empathic exploration of the life of Alice Claudia Oehninger. For fourteen years, she grows up in traditional Tanzania and Zimbabwe of the 1980ies. She is white. And...view moreAn intimate and empathic exploration of the life of Alice Claudia Oehninger. For fourteen years, she grows up in traditional Tanzania and Zimbabwe of the 1980ies. She is white. And she is transgender. She looks like a boy, and is expected to act the part.
Returning to Zurich at twenty, the city of her birth, she realizes that she is a stranger there too. Navigating her way past culture shock, through love and rejection, learning to earn a living, discovering the powerful wish to be a parent. This leads to a life in the role of a man, of marriage and contentment in Germany, until crisis destroys the fragile world Alice and her Love live in.
Time to initiate changes.
Enabling other people to be their best possible selves is what drives Alice. It led to her becoming a vocational trainer, a learning coach for youths and young adults, a mentor and a counsellor. And ultimately, it is this drive that has led to this book, in the hopes that it touch and enrich as many lives as possible.
As you read deeper into her life, she tells of being raised among a multitude of cultures. How that has gifted her with a richness of insights and experiences. Understanding for the parallels and similarities in the joys and struggles of people across the globe. The appreciation that life is finite, and infinitely precious, and how we are all united in this.
Alice explores human needs that are so fundamental to what we are, that they rule our choices and define how we interact with one another. Most particularly, how cultures interact with each other, and how our ancestral urges for dominance and survival pitch us against each other, instead of uniting us. She delicately but implacably points out how much time and effort we dedicate to defending and preserving our comfort zone.
She discusses what it takes to break taboos. She suggests what we might require to solve emotional double-binds. Or live and thrive, despite the ambivalences and insecurities life throws our way. What it takes to overcome the limitations of biological dichotomy, and the conditioning of our childhood. And she casts a light on how we all yearn for recognition, security, and love.
Alice also makes demands. She hopes that we evolve beyond the arena of survival, and in doing so, become role models for a society we want to live in tomorrow. She expects us to identify constraints, those imprinted by our society, or the self-imposed. And in their stead, engender understanding and mutual empowerment.view less