Barry, a retired US Marine and his wife, Arlene, live in Southern Pines, NC. Bruce, a retired manager at Sandia National Laboratory and his wife, Becky, live in Albuquerque, NM.Barry, a retired US Marine and his wife, Arlene, live in Southern Pines, NC. Bruce, a retired manager at Sandia National Laboratory and his wife, Becky, live in Albuquerque, NM.