Cheryl Deetjen writes from her own experiences of growing up in a small town. As a child, she sometimes lacked the confidence to build relationships, from girlfriends and later wit...view moreCheryl Deetjen writes from her own experiences of growing up in a small town. As a child, she sometimes lacked the confidence to build relationships, from girlfriends and later with boys she crushed on. Too often she compared herself, and in her own opinion, came up short in schoolwork, her appearance, and self-worth. Channeling Isa, a fictional character, helped her to discover self-love.view less