I was born Vanessa Lamar Thomas Anderson in the late 50s born to Horace Anderson and Veola Thomas. I was the middle child in a house of ten children consisting of five boys and five girls. The best...view moreI was born Vanessa Lamar Thomas Anderson in the late 50s born to Horace Anderson and Veola Thomas. I was the middle child in a house of ten children consisting of five boys and five girls. The best thing that I can say about my childhood is that I learn to not take things for granted, everything that you have is a blessing. I myself was blessed with two wonderful sons : Joseph Bostick Jr. and Roberto Barragan iv(rip) of whom I am very proud. Through those two blessings I am also blessed with four beautiful grand children ( A grandmothers pride).Join me through my quest as I go through the trials and tribulations of a mother.view less