For thirty five years I played the part of a man going through the motions, pandering to the wishes of others. I Went to school where I was abused-----Played a lot of sport-----Was heavily involved...view moreFor thirty five years I played the part of a man going through the motions, pandering to the wishes of others. I Went to school where I was abused-----Played a lot of sport-----Was heavily involved in music, playing in many bands-----My first job lasted 20 years, leaving me unfulfilled and stressed out-----Got married and divorced. Rarely did I make decisions that put me first. Eventually something has to give. The damage I was doing to my heart went unnoticed for a long time: Symptoms started to stir; constant fatigue, shortness of breath, and mild chest pain. I ignored the symptoms until the situation became critical: A new life with unforeseen challenges began. Having options taken away led to pursuing new options. Sharing my story worth you is one. Life is a gift with many wrappings: This is my gift to you.view less