Everybody (Else) Is Perfect: How I Survived Hypocrisy, Beauty, Clicks, and Likes
Written by Gabrielle Korn
Narrated by Gabra Zackman
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About this audiobook
Gabrielle Korn starts her professional life with all the right credentials. Prestigious college degree? Check. A loving, accepting family? Check. Instagram-worthy offices and a tight-knit group of friends? Check, check. Gabrielle’s life seems to reach the crescendo of perfect when she gets named the youngest editor-in-chief in the history of one of fashion’s most influential publication. Suddenly she’s invited to the world’s most epic parties, comped beautiful clothes and shoes from trendy designers, and asked to weigh in on everything from gay rights to lip gloss on one of the most influential digital platforms.
But behind the scenes, things are far from perfect. In fact, just a few months before landing her dream job, Gabrielle’s health and wellbeing are on the line, and her promotion to editor-in-chief becomes the ultimate test of strength. In this collection of inspirational and searing essays, Gabrielle reveals exactly what it’s truly like in the fashion world, trying to find love as a young lesbian in New York City, battling with anorexia, and trying not to lose herself in a mirage of women’s empowerment and Instagram perfection.
Through deeply personal essays, Gabrielle recounts her struggles to reconcile her long-held insecurities about her body while coming out in the era of The L Word, where swoon-worthy lesbians are portrayed as skinny, fashion-perfect, and power-hungry. She takes us with her everywhere from New York Fashion Week to the doctor’s office, revealing that the forces that try to keep women small are more pervasive than anyone wants to admit, especially in a world that’s been newly branded as woke.
From #MeToo to commercialized body positivity, Korn’s biting, darkly funny analysis turns feminist commentary on its head. Both an in-your-face take on impossible beauty standards and entrenched media ideals and an inspiring call for personal authenticity, this powerful collection is ideal for fans of Roxane Gay and Rebecca Solnit.
Gabrielle Korn
GABRIELLE KORN is the author of Everybody (Else) Is Perfect and the former Editor-in-Chief of Nylon. She recently led LGBTQ+ strategy at Netflix, and her writing has been published across the internet since 2011, with bylines in Instyle, Coveteur, Autostraddle, Nylon, Refinery29, Oprah, and more. Originally from New York, she now lives in Los Angeles with her wife, and together they run The Pink Door artist and writer residency.
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Reviews for Everybody (Else) Is Perfect
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I couldn't not-give this book 5 starts. It stroke close to home, as some of the struggles with eating, body image and the patronizing in its rhetorics mainstream culture that Ms. Korn described, I could relate to and recognize in myself on a very deep level.
Ms. Korn's writing is spot-on, and her words are poignant. Her arguments are thought-through, and this book is a mix of vulnerable self-expression and a sharing of diligently earned knowledge and expertise. Ms. Korn's private life does seem to be mirrored to at least seems to have affected her professional choices, and I think it's GREAT that she expresses this. Because we women are multi-faceted and these facets of our personalities mutually affect one another! We might be wearing different hats in different environments (work, social, romantic, etc) but we are full personas! And Ms. Korn's story is a beautiful celebration of all the ways one can be a woman. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5One of the best memoirs I’ve read in a long time. Personal, intimate and interesting enough to keep one engaged. She also found a way to express profound observations on herself, interactions, society, ideals, standards, practices, etc. Within a relevant context that kept the book fascinating all the way through. This book is a great jumping off point for beginning to understand the female experience, female empowerment, sexism, and how it affects every single one of us. I hope to read more books from this author!