I am grappling internally with the unintended ripples of a delicate, in-person conversation I had with an acquaintance. I made a subtle suggestion that was intended to encourage but was, instead, received as being condescending, evoking some anger and hurt. On reflection, perhaps I could have offered an affirmation, not a suggestion, or just listened silently, with empathy.
So often we think we are being helpful by slipping